I'm done being stealthy.

I realized something today, I have been so caught up in the smoker mentality that I have not been forward enough and taking enough chances to demonstrate the vaping experience.

Sneaking around, trying to not offend anyone, thinking that if we are quiet and secretive that we may get a few more months or years out of this before the FDA shuts us down for good is nothing but a mindset that is going to ruin everything for us.

Those days and that kind of thinking is over for me. Sure, it's easy to be in a group of smokers and break the thing out and show it off but it's time to really put my comfort level on the line.

From here on out if I'm near non-smokers I'm going to use my PV, because first off I'm not doing anything that hurts anyone and secondly I bet one of those non-smokers cares about somebody who does smoke and they need to hear the information and see it put into action just as much as the smokers do. Maybe someone will get the information they need to pass on to the smoker that they care about and maybe they will finally be successful in kicking the tobacco habit for good as you and I have done.

If I had quit on chantix, or patches or gum or any other NRT smokers and non-smokers alike would congratulate me and ask me how they or their loved ones could do the same thing and I'm done with being ashamed of my accomplishment just because the way I did it was fun instead of a big uncomfortable drag.

I'm proud of what I have done after so many failures in the past and I know if I can do it so can others but they will never be able to do it if they don't know the product exists and right now they either don't know or some corporation that stands to lose money to the e-cig business is going to tell them about it.

Why is today different to me than yesterday?

Today I was getting a haircut and talking about vaping to the girl since I could smell the smoke on her and by the time I was done I was demonstrating my 510 for everyone in the place and letting them smell the vapor and giving out .com addresses to the smokers and the non-smokers alike so they could find more info and I realized that vapers that have been successful in leaving tobacco behind have a duty to get outside their comfort zones and let people know that they have another choice when it comes to quitting tobacco.

I know it's not easy or comfortable and you are going to run into jerks that are going to try to make you feel bad because you are still addicted to nicotine but I don't care about that, it's not right to punish someone just because they are ignorant and bigoted. The important ones are the ones who want to quit or help a family member or friend quit and you will never even know who those people are until you take the chance of letting people see you enjoy vaping.

If you are ashamed to vape openly what else could people think other than it's something to be ashamed of? If you act like you are saving a life and as sappy and melodramatic as it is to say I believe you are then why in the hell would you ever be ashamed to get out your PV and use it?!?

I know there are problems with my rant but that's up to you to fix as the situation calls for, the important part to remember is you are a pioneer and you are the one with the information that could possibly save a life.

I want you to be proud of what you have done and to be able to look right back at an accusing or angry stare and give even the self righteous people that don't deserve it the knowledge to help the people in their lives.

You are the one that is in the right on this one and that gives you a duty to the people around you and duty is never easy.

Comments

I started out the same way. You make an excellent point. We can save lives.

As far as the "you're still addicted" accusations, another user named BenJammin has a great motto that might work as a come-back: "I may still be addicted, but at least I'm not dying for a cigarette."
 
I know exactly what you mean! I don't bother trying to hide my vaping anymore, anywhere. And a lot of people wind up asking me about it, getting psyched, and getting web addresses so they can get one too! I'm going to have to take to carrying around carts so they can try it out themselves - I know they're dying to! I'll let family and friends try mine, no problem, but total strangers? Um...no.
 
This is really inspiring. My ecig has been a way to meet a whole lot of strangers. If they see me with my PV then of course I have to be patient and explain, but I am saving lives. If they don't see it, and I know them for a while, and they are smokers, I start out by asking, "Can I show you something awesome?" and they are totally stoked by the time I finish explaining what it is (the same way that I was when I first found saw them) that they end up becoming vape-heads right along with me.
 
My wife and I hang out sometimes at a local bar frequented by hard-core bikers. She's been friends with this crowd for many years, and I guess I'm ok with them too under her auspices. It was an interesting progression with the ecigs and the bikers, rude teasing at first, then polite teasing, and now that we've both got beefy chucks to hold our high power batteries, they're all fascinated. Whenever one of these biker types (smokers, all of them) teases my wife, she sweetly tells them that she'll be happy to say a few words at their funeral. :)
 
Excellent points River. I LOVE to see people spaz out when I'm in hospital scrubs and vaping at the gas station, shopping, etc. The hospitals banned smoking way before everyone else did, so it was a social thing to go to the "smokers hangout" at work .... I still go, but now most times I stand on the periphery and end up giving an infomercial on my Egos and tanks. The first few weeks I quit smoking on white cloud mini flings, and when I upgraded I carried the rest of them in my pocket and gave them away to hospital employees and people visiting their family members in the hospital. So far, we still cannot vape indoors at the hospital, so I take the opportunity to share with all the smokers. They really enjoy the vapor smells coming from my corner..LOL.

Keep up your journey!
~Angel
 

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