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olderthandirt · 10-26-2009, 03:09 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by kyivish

I can't believe this question is even being asked. 9 months of uncomfortable angst vs. A possible life time consequence for your child. If you have to ask you're not ready to be a mother.
I know I sound rude, but how on earth could you risk it, especially with feedback on a online forum...no personal offense to forum members

Hmm, that was rude..

Hey sineadm, even though I'm a guy (old guy at that) I can say I've been there. With that, simply be strong with your decisions and trust that those decisions will be well guided by one of the stronger forces we humans have got going for us, those of a mother.

Strength to you, relax and enjoy what's yours!

EDIT: Nailed It Snarky!!

TWISTED VICTOR · 10-26-2009, 06:37 AM

A serious pickle with a lot of good advice, so not much I can add, but, although I can't speak for anyone but myself I would like to reply. The only complications I've heard the doctors warn about is low birth weight. I really doubt they've linked it to nicotine, just smoking in general. Obviously, the best thing to do is quit, but realistically that's not something everyone can do. For instance, all the males on my dad's side of the family have suffered from heart problems and died in their early 50's. My dad was no different. Even though I was with him at the time of his fatal collapse, I still finished off his last pack of smokes. Now, at almost 46 years old I'm very aware of the odds against me and in recent years given much thought to whether or not I'd quit if I suffered a heart attack and survived. I'd like to sound wise and say yes, but I'm sure, in reality, I wouldn't. Just like Dad didn't when he had his quadruple by-pass. I'm an addict, we all are, and that's the nature of the beast. I'm strong-willed enough to break or change a habit, but more than just willpower comes into play when an addiction has a stranglehold on us. So, no condemnation here. Quit if you can, vape if you must, exercise, eat nutritiously and do all within your power to have a healthy baby. Congratulations.

Mordred · 10-28-2009, 02:11 AM

Interesting question.

Option 1: You quit. This is, of course, a wise choice on a long-term basis. However, there is some serious stress involved here and you may well be putting yourself and the unborn child at risk by quitting. Especially if you then find out that you can´t quit and pick the habit up again.

Option 2: You continue to smoke. This will impact negatively on your pregnancy. That said, many smokers have had children with no problems whatsoever.

Option 3: You vape instead of smoking. While this does reduce YOUR risks of lung cancer and gets rid of the carbon monoxide, it still leaves you with the problem of nicotine. Now, nicotine isn´t very harmful, at least no more than say lots of caffeine, but it´s still not ideal.

So, it all depends on your ability to quit nicotine. If you feel that you can do it without freaking out, then that´s the way to go. What better motivation could you ever find?

If, on the other hand, you are emotionally or psychologically fragile and forsee serious complications from quitting, then it may well be wiser to switch over to vaping.

Imho, quitting altogether remains the best choice, on the whole.

sherid · 10-28-2009, 02:26 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by kyivish

I can't believe this question is even being asked. 9 months of uncomfortable angst vs. A possible life time consequence for your child. If you have to ask you're not ready to be a mother.
I know I sound rude, but how on earth could you risk it, especially with feedback on a online forum...no personal offense to forum members

It not only sounds rude; it sounds nauseatingly judgemental.

TWISTED VICTOR · 10-28-2009, 02:44 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by kyivish

I can't believe this question is even being asked. 9 months of uncomfortable angst vs. A possible life time consequence for your child. If you have to ask you're not ready to be a mother.
I know I sound rude, but how on earth could you risk it, especially with feedback on a online forum...no personal offense to forum members

And this doesn't speaker for me. I live in the real world. I love kids ( I have 5 sons and 2 daughters) and delivered my 2 youngest at home, but I've also lived the nightmare of several addictions and know its nature in form and function. kyivish hasn't faced the demon for what it really is.

thewomenfolk · 10-28-2009, 03:56 AM

If you really love your baby, you'd put yourself in a perfect world where he'd be safe from all the food you eat, the drinks you drink, the cars you drive, the sinners you hang out with, and the terrorists overseas.

Twisted Victor said, ....more than just willpower comes into play when an addiction has a stranglehold on us. So, no condemnation here. Those are my sentiments too.

If you were my daughter I'd be tickled pick to see you vaping instead of smoking, pregnant or not. I'd encourage you to give up the nicotine just as I'd encourage the teenage boy down the street or anyone else.

Please let us all know the name, the weight, the length, you know...all the important details!

Fataliya · 11-13-2009, 08:01 AM

I'll offer a different perspective, though YMMV.

I have 5 children, and with ALL of them, I was advised (By Dr. with 1st child, Military Dr. with 2nd child, and midwife with last 3 children) to NOT quit cold turkey, because my withdrawal symptoms could be harmful to the fetus. I smoked 1.5-2 packs a day.

I was told, instead, to slowly decrease my smoking, even if it was only by 1 cigarette a day. With my last child, my midwife finally told me I could use the patch, so I used that to "quit".

Whatever you do, make sure you check with your OB/GYN to make sure that they know what you are planning (whether quitting, cutting down, or vaping), and they can advise you.

Whatever you choose, I hope it goes well for you, and congratulations on your baby!

lkim65 · 11-13-2009, 08:29 AM

Wow, most of the posts on this thread sound just like the 'self-righteous' ones that you turn around and complain about. Sure, it would be best if you quit smoking because it is bad for you. However, if you can't, then you can't. The one thing that doctors seem to attribute to smoking and pregnancy is the possibility of a lower birth rate but that is about it. My parents and their Baby Boomer generation were/are a bunch of smokers; it was so commonplace, yet their children weren't born with two heads or three ears or a myriad of diseases. My mother was a smoker and had 7 healthy children. My sister is a smoker and her children are all healthy. If I were pregnant and still smoked, I would continue to do so, since I know I couldn't just quit. And if if I were to become pregnant now, I would continue to vape. Frankly, I would ask your doctor. Tell doc you can't quit smoking and it's either smoking or vaping. See what he/she thinks is the better alternative.

Kent C · 11-13-2009, 08:53 AM

OP's been run off a month ago - 2 posts. Moderators should just close this embarrassing thread.

Neight · 11-13-2009, 09:46 AM

Some people have said thier Dr. told them the stress from quitting smoking cold turkey was bad. I don't really know much about it, but I wouldn't reccomend niccotine in any form because it causes physical changes in your blood pressure, heart rate and more.
You should do more research on quitting smoking and premature births associated with quitting, and low birth weight, SIDs associated with smoking.
What is your Dr saying? get a few opinions.
good luck. Im sure you and your baby will be fine...congrats!

10-28-2009, 03:56 AM	#46
thewomenfolk Super Member Join Date: Sep 2009 Location: John 3:16 Posts: 616	If you really love your baby, you'd put yourself in a perfect world where he'd be safe from all the food you eat, the drinks you drink, the cars you drive, the sinners you hang out with, and the terrorists overseas. Twisted Victor said, ....more than just willpower comes into play when an addiction has a stranglehold on us. So, no condemnation here. Those are my sentiments too. If you were my daughter I'd be tickled pick to see you vaping instead of smoking, pregnant or not. I'd encourage you to give up the nicotine just as I'd encourage the teenage boy down the street or anyone else. Please let us all know the name, the weight, the length, you know...all the important details! __________________

11-13-2009, 08:01 AM	#47
Fataliya Full Member Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: Tampa, FL Posts: 58	I'll offer a different perspective, though YMMV. I have 5 children, and with ALL of them, I was advised (By Dr. with 1st child, Military Dr. with 2nd child, and midwife with last 3 children) to NOT quit cold turkey, because my withdrawal symptoms could be harmful to the fetus. I smoked 1.5-2 packs a day. I was told, instead, to slowly decrease my smoking, even if it was only by 1 cigarette a day. With my last child, my midwife finally told me I could use the patch, so I used that to "quit". Whatever you do, make sure you check with your OB/GYN to make sure that they know what you are planning (whether quitting, cutting down, or vaping), and they can advise you. Whatever you choose, I hope it goes well for you, and congratulations on your baby! __________________ I'm the Blackjack lady!!

11-13-2009, 08:53 AM	#49
Kent C Supporting Member Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: NW Ohio US Posts: 2,637	OP's been run off a month ago - 2 posts. Moderators should just close this embarrassing thread. __________________

11-13-2009, 09:46 AM	#50
Neight Full Member Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: New England USA Posts: 35	Some people have said thier Dr. told them the stress from quitting smoking cold turkey was bad. I don't really know much about it, but I wouldn't reccomend niccotine in any form because it causes physical changes in your blood pressure, heart rate and more. You should do more research on quitting smoking and premature births associated with quitting, and low birth weight, SIDs associated with smoking. What is your Dr saying? get a few opinions. good luck. Im sure you and your baby will be fine...congrats! __________________

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10-26-2009, 06:37 AM	#42
TWISTED VICTOR Senior Member Join Date: Sep 2009 Location: Lucerne, IN Posts: 239	A serious pickle with a lot of good advice, so not much I can add, but, although I can't speak for anyone but myself I would like to reply. The only complications I've heard the doctors warn about is low birth weight. I really doubt they've linked it to nicotine, just smoking in general. Obviously, the best thing to do is quit, but realistically that's not something everyone can do. For instance, all the males on my dad's side of the family have suffered from heart problems and died in their early 50's. My dad was no different. Even though I was with him at the time of his fatal collapse, I still finished off his last pack of smokes. Now, at almost 46 years old I'm very aware of the odds against me and in recent years given much thought to whether or not I'd quit if I suffered a heart attack and survived. I'd like to sound wise and say yes, but I'm sure, in reality, I wouldn't. Just like Dad didn't when he had his quadruple by-pass. I'm an addict, we all are, and that's the nature of the beast. I'm strong-willed enough to break or change a habit, but more than just willpower comes into play when an addiction has a stranglehold on us. So, no condemnation here. Quit if you can, vape if you must, exercise, eat nutritiously and do all within your power to have a healthy baby. Congratulations.

10-28-2009, 02:11 AM	#43
Mordred Full Member Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: Luxembourg Posts: 30	Interesting question. Option 1: You quit. This is, of course, a wise choice on a long-term basis. However, there is some serious stress involved here and you may well be putting yourself and the unborn child at risk by quitting. Especially if you then find out that you can´t quit and pick the habit up again. Option 2: You continue to smoke. This will impact negatively on your pregnancy. That said, many smokers have had children with no problems whatsoever. Option 3: You vape instead of smoking. While this does reduce YOUR risks of lung cancer and gets rid of the carbon monoxide, it still leaves you with the problem of nicotine. Now, nicotine isn´t very harmful, at least no more than say lots of caffeine, but it´s still not ideal. So, it all depends on your ability to quit nicotine. If you feel that you can do it without freaking out, then that´s the way to go. What better motivation could you ever find? If, on the other hand, you are emotionally or psychologically fragile and forsee serious complications from quitting, then it may well be wiser to switch over to vaping. Imho, quitting altogether remains the best choice, on the whole.

11-13-2009, 08:29 AM	#48
lkim65 Full Member Join Date: Sep 2009 Location: California Posts: 90	Wow, most of the posts on this thread sound just like the 'self-righteous' ones that you turn around and complain about. Sure, it would be best if you quit smoking because it is bad for you. However, if you can't, then you can't. The one thing that doctors seem to attribute to smoking and pregnancy is the possibility of a lower birth rate but that is about it. My parents and their Baby Boomer generation were/are a bunch of smokers; it was so commonplace, yet their children weren't born with two heads or three ears or a myriad of diseases. My mother was a smoker and had 7 healthy children. My sister is a smoker and her children are all healthy. If I were pregnant and still smoked, I would continue to do so, since I know I couldn't just quit. And if if I were to become pregnant now, I would continue to vape. Frankly, I would ask your doctor. Tell doc you can't quit smoking and it's either smoking or vaping. See what he/she thinks is the better alternative.