Can E-Cigarettes be more dangerous than normal ones for pregnant women?

[Smokin]

My Heart goes out to you; take the time you need to heal and you matter.

[rhyddereh]

I cannot express my sympathy enough with what happened especially being less than a month from my firstborn's birth.

Take care of yourself and try, try again. When the time is right it will happen.

[Ladycats]

I am so very sorry for your loss ..... be good to yourself.

[mirelush001]

Thank you all...believe it or not,it matters a lot to me...i just can't believe it.I made my hubby call the hospital again and ask for another scan cuz i just dont believe what they said.The embryo was there 2 weeks ago...how can it just be absorbed?She only looked for 1 min before telling me it was bad news.Why???????Why me?What the hell have i done to lose the baby?I dunno...im not convinced...i had no bleeding,no pain whatsoever...its true that the day i found out i was preggy i finished my 2 weeks course of antibiotics for a bad urine infection...could that be the reason?they say its not my fault,these things happen for no reason...well i need a reason in order to accept it.Now im just waiting to phisically eliminate everything that was inside me...otherwise they'll have to scrape it off...this is not happening to me.This morning i was pregnant...now i have an empty voum inside...unfreakinbelievable.

[Kate]

Is there a way for you to get to talk with a counsellor sweetheart? It sounds like you need to make sense of this and talking it out might help.

Life is .... sometimes.

Hang in there and if it helps to post here, just go ahead.

[ApOsTle51]

my wife had the same thing on our third pregnancy so I know it's not a nice experience so sympathies go out to you and don't let it put you off trying again . Mother Nature has strange ways to tell you something is wrong.

My wife and I last year ( our 4th pregnancy ) had to abort a 11 week foetus on medical grounds because it had ancephaly. a very rare disorder which prevents the growth of the top of the skull and complete brain. The baby could have been born but would have died very quickly no questions about that, a heart wrenching decision that we continually question.

But Our 5th pregnancy was succesful and last year we had a little girl , number 3 child
It wasnt an easy ride , My wife was continually monitored, we had to have tests for downs because the 12 week scan showed excess fluid behind the neck. We had to travel to St. Thomas hospital a few times for specialist heart abnormality tests, and our local hospital became our second home for 9 months.

I look at it without our past problems we wouldn't have Our little Molly Mae.

So for all that you are going through at this time your not alone. It does help to talk about it in time.
I hope i havent said anything to upset you but from our experiences you never know what's around the corner. All these things i look at as natures way of telling us that something is wrong.

Best wishes

ApO.x.

[rhyddereh]

Thank you all...believe it or not,it matters a lot to me...i just can't believe it.I made my hubby call the hospital again and ask for another scan cuz i just dont believe what they said.The embryo was there 2 weeks ago...how can it just be absorbed?She only looked for 1 min before telling me it was bad news.Why???????Why me?What the hell have i done to lose the baby?I dunno...im not convinced...i had no bleeding,no pain whatsoever...its true that the day i found out i was preggy i finished my 2 weeks course of antibiotics for a bad urine infection...could that be the reason?they say its not my fault,these things happen for no reason...well i need a reason in order to accept it.Now im just waiting to phisically eliminate everything that was inside me...otherwise they'll have to scrape it off...this is not happening to me.This morning i was pregnant...now i have an empty voum inside...unfreakinbelievable.

I'm with Kate that someone more qualified might be able to help more than us. With that said, I doubt it was anti-biotics (though I'm not a doctor).

It's not your fault at all. My understanding is that when things like that happen it's often because it wasn't a viable pregnancy, your body and nature is very good at what it does and if there is something wrong most likely it'll take care of it early. The statistics show that this kind of thing happens very often, but with our modern medicine and regular doctors visits (which many don't do regularly) we know we are pregnant so much earlier in the process, before even nature knows if it's a viable pregnancy.

I could be completely full of crap but something happening this early has got to be better than having to chose to abort for medical reasons later.

You will get through this with the help of your partner who is more than likely as confused and hurt as you are (even if he isn't showing it). Lean on each other and try again when you feel up to it is my advice.