I know exactly how you feel, but it's basically a dead end. The FAA left vaping to the airlines. Some airlines left it up to the flight crew.
On a commercial flight, the FA's can be total bitches, and there's not much that can be done about it and the Pilot has the last word.
Just be careful. All an FA has to do, is inform the Pilot that they have an unruly passenger, and before you know it, Airport Security, TSA, and possibly the FBI will be escorting you off the plane.
You may want to watch corispondance too. I'm not 100% sure, but here's my short story.
I had an argument with TSA at IAH on a flight out in 2003. I was detained for calling the TSA officer, and his supervisor "Idiots" I followed up with a nasty-gram to TSA.
Two weeks later, I was being checked on every flight. I found that I had been placed on a terrorist watch list. Coincidence?? And to this day, I still get an occasional red flag, even though I'm Platinum with 3 airlines, and gold with a few others.
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