I've lost several people in my life that I was not ready to let go: My Mom, my nephew, a friend that was more like a sister, and my brother. My Mom was the first and it happened way too early in life--she was in her fifties and I was in my early twenties.
It was selfish but I would have liked to have had my Mom longer even though I knew she was suffering and was ready to go with God. I think of her often and still miss her terribly.
As time past, I've learned it's not about what I want and, in my life, this situation is happening again.
I read something a long time ago and the link that I provided is not it but it is close. It explains how to tell when someone you love is ready to go. I sought it out a couple days ago to dispel my doubts.
So, when asked, like I was today, if it was okay to go, I gave my blessing. Unselfishly, I can only respect that decision, and support that decision and give her over to God's care.
This person I love dearly and whom has enriched my life, and gave me joy.
To my loved one: I will cherish the time left and will endure the pain of loss, and, with a crying heart, be glad when you are pain free, and are at piece with God.
I hope this helps anyone who faces the same situation.
Signs and Symptoms of Dying - Benton Hospice Service- Corvallis, Oregon
It was selfish but I would have liked to have had my Mom longer even though I knew she was suffering and was ready to go with God. I think of her often and still miss her terribly.
As time past, I've learned it's not about what I want and, in my life, this situation is happening again.
I read something a long time ago and the link that I provided is not it but it is close. It explains how to tell when someone you love is ready to go. I sought it out a couple days ago to dispel my doubts.
So, when asked, like I was today, if it was okay to go, I gave my blessing. Unselfishly, I can only respect that decision, and support that decision and give her over to God's care.
This person I love dearly and whom has enriched my life, and gave me joy.
To my loved one: I will cherish the time left and will endure the pain of loss, and, with a crying heart, be glad when you are pain free, and are at piece with God.
I hope this helps anyone who faces the same situation.
Signs and Symptoms of Dying - Benton Hospice Service- Corvallis, Oregon