Yes, you should give them some crap! Tell them they need to get a programmer
So I did give my dealer some crap this morning and they promised they would not send me into the arms of another dealer in Tampa. They said they'd reach out to you today to get what they need to perform updates. If you don't hear from them today, I'm going to suggest you PM me for who to contact at my dealer and you can call him. I'm going to make sure they get the ball rolling on this. Yes indeed I am!