I think we hubbies who truly love our wives will be this way no matter what. No, we are not blind; we just don't care that your Barbie Doll figure from 30 years ago is no longer the way you look on the outside, and your love handles do not bother us anywhere near as much as they bother you. Most women (not pointing fingers at you or Wifey) cannot believe the man in their lives doesn't want them to stay 20 years old forever and surely we must be judging you based on what you used to be, or that we grab your butts today just because we are horny roosters (or blind). I find this to be a lack of belief/trust on the woman's part that the man is capable of loving her for
who she is, not what her body looks like. It just happens that my wife is my best friend on this planet and even if her fall down the dungeon stairs had screwed her head on backwards, that wouldn't change. I just figure if that had happened, she could sit with her back to me while we talked face-to-face.
It would make it rather hard for her to get her Binkie to her mouth...
Sigh,
Fuzzy