Avril is gorgeous after her day at the spa!
Wow! Super nice! What sanding sponge did you use?
Now, I'm beginning the "rubbing my hands together" stage for the debut of the sale date!! Exciting times, these are
One suggestion Lazyee on the wife and new shoes approach: begin leaving shoe catalogs about the house, cut out shoe sale ads from the newspapers, share with her shoes you've seen on-line, or when driving together take note verbally of all the shoe stores you see.....
I my experience, most "don't let the <sig other> know" purchases are based in guilt over the purchase, specifically, that it's something you want, but don't really need and the <sig other> is your conscience incarnate.
I use that as a razor. If I wouldn't want to tell my wife, I prolly don't make the purchase - it's my only (if flimsy) restraint filter.
but you have been gifted quite a bit already. so why bring it up?Being single, I don't have to get approval or tell anyone what I get......but the flip side is..... being disabled......I'm broke and can't buy much of nuttin anyhow
Sounds a lot like the wife and me. We got married at 30 and decided to just keep separate finances. We just handle it too differently. I'm more electronic, she still writes everything down and mails physical checks for her billsMamaw and I have separate banks, let alone separate accounts. One less thing for us to "discuss".
We split the bills. She gets the groceries, I pay the mortgage. She gets the electric bill, I have the car payments. She gets the water bill, I get the Satellite & internet &.....
Yea, it's a little slanted. But a woman needs money for "her things". And I have a bigger paycheck. And she is an excellent cook.
As far as Reos, that's " my things". And she just laughs and says that I traded one habit for another.
but you have been gifted quite a bit already. so why bring it up?
for the record, i'm also disabled and on a fixed income, as i have been since my first day in Reoville.
Wow, that sounds EXACTLY like me and Mrs. Havok! Except that I do the cooking too.Mamaw and I have separate banks, let alone separate accounts. One less thing for us to "discuss".
We split the bills. She gets the groceries, I pay the mortgage. She gets the electric bill, I have the car payments. She gets the water bill, I get the Satellite & internet &.....
Yea, it's a little slanted. But a woman needs money for "her things". And I have a bigger paycheck. And she is an excellent cook.
As far as Reos, that's " my things". And she just laughs and says that I traded one habit for another.
Deb, I have a huge box of rayon.....did you get some or do you still WANT some? I will stick some in an envelope and send it your way. (This offer is out there for anyone else who might want to try some rayon......please take some off my hands.)I was simply trying to make conversation, kinda like everyone else. If it sounded to anyone like I was whining or begging, I assure I wasn't and I apologize if it seemed that way. Yes, I have been incredibly blessed by folks here, and am very grateful for it. For the record, I've not asked anyone to give me anything, til the other day when I offered to trade some cotton for a piece of rayon. I have also refused things that have been offered, not because I didn't want them, but because I didn't need them. I've also given quite a bit when I could and hooked other folks up with things when I knew of someone that was giving something away.
I got some yesterday sweetie. You're sweet to offer, and I've seen you offer many times. Gonna try it later today.Deb, I have a huge box of rayon.....did you get some or do you still WANT some? I will stick some in an envelope and send it your way. (This offer is out there for anyone else who might want to try some rayon......please take some off my hands.)
I think you're going to like it. Heads up that you might need to use a tiny bit more in your coil than you do with cotton. Rayon doesn't swell up like cotton does, so it needs to be pretty solid in there. Don't just cram it in....but don't make it loose enough it'll slide through easily like we do with cotton.I got some yesterday sweetie. You're sweet to offer, and I've seen you offer many times. Gonna try it later today.
Thanks, looking forward to trying it. I've been super happy with KGD, but will see how I like the rayon. I didn't care for the Tx Tuff, so if anyone would like to try a bit, pm your addy and I'll send you some til I run out.I think you're going to like it. Heads up that you might need to use a tiny bit more in your coil than you do with cotton. Rayon doesn't swell up like cotton does, so it needs to be pretty solid in there. Don't just cram it in....but don't make it loose enough it'll slide through easily like we do with cotton.
Well said and sounds wonderfully familiar (except for the kids. Not that they don't come first, it's that we passed on that option ).Honestly, my initial comment was made in jest! We have been married long enough that we don't have to make like for like purchases, we know that it will all even out in the end. Having said that we don't make larger purchases without talking to each other as that can lead to us going overdrawn at the bank etc. There is a long list of things that need to be paid for, before vape gear. General household stuff and the kids come first. Toys for either of us come at the bottom of the list. It will happen when it happens. I have found I enjoy things much more if I save up and buy them.