What a day! I left the house a bit before 9 on a couple hundred mile jaunt to check two wheelchair lifts. However, before I left, there was a call from the daughter in law of my live in from jail in Washington State and she didn't know what happened to her son or the four girls. Needless to say, the emotions were flying until he called back from their house after her call. Now it was about 4:30 in the morning out there and it was haed to understand what exactly happened but her fate should be known in the next hour. My opinion, she needs some psychiatric help, but what do I know. Bipolar comes to mind right now or symptoms brought on by the drugs her doc put her on a few weeks ago.
On the way back from my eight or so hours I stopped for a couple drinks and some food. I also called her other soon to be ex son-in-law, to find out what was said in a convo that the pycho gal had with her former, soon to be, ex-BIL. If you can follow all this you're better than I.
All I know is that I'm getting quite an education on the messed up lives her kids are living. Something was wrong with my family. My parents were together their entire adult lives and me and my sister get along great.
Anyway, I think I found a lift that will work for her nephew who has brain cancer. A construction guy came up with a $7,500+ ramp that would be 30' long with a 5x5 deck off their back door to another 5x5 deck in their back yard right angling to another 18' of ramp, the another 5x5 deck to get him to their back parking. All by Fed code for commercial usage and demanded by the borough.
I've got a better idea. We build a plarform 5x5 or 6x6 that we put on their 12' deep porch and put the wheelchair lift on a 4x4 slab next to the porch. We'll have to dig and pour a cement walk from the front of the house to the back but that's just physical labor and the cost of cement because her sister's ex says he can do it. The town isn't going to like it, but I'm ready for a newspaper war over it, using a dying, nearly 40 year old with an Asian wife and
three kids as the weapons. It's going to get interesting.