I am wondering how people with non Pagan partners deal with the difference.
On our first date I wanted to get it right out there that I was Pagan. I had just split with a guy who was Baptist. The issue with us was that we never talked about religion until we dated for a while. Once we talked about religion it was done, he could not handle I was not Baptist or even Christian and I wasn't going to change for him.
So here is how the conversation went with me and hubby on our first date. After telling me he was not a sports nut (thanks the goddess) I said "I am Pagan" and he said "Oh good, I am atheist!" I just looked at him like HUH? How is that good ? He explained how he didnt want anything to do with Christians and then laughed that I actually think my spells work. So after many discussions about his beliefs and mine, I figured out he was more agnostic. He claimed he was atheist because that is what his ex wife told him they were and that is how their kids were raised.
So now after about 5 yrs together, now he says he is Pagan. He actually dabbles in candle magic now too. I have never told him to "be" anything, he is just liking how I think and what I do and most of that comes from living Pagan.
On our first date I wanted to get it right out there that I was Pagan. I had just split with a guy who was Baptist. The issue with us was that we never talked about religion until we dated for a while. Once we talked about religion it was done, he could not handle I was not Baptist or even Christian and I wasn't going to change for him.
So here is how the conversation went with me and hubby on our first date. After telling me he was not a sports nut (thanks the goddess) I said "I am Pagan" and he said "Oh good, I am atheist!" I just looked at him like HUH? How is that good ? He explained how he didnt want anything to do with Christians and then laughed that I actually think my spells work. So after many discussions about his beliefs and mine, I figured out he was more agnostic. He claimed he was atheist because that is what his ex wife told him they were and that is how their kids were raised.
So now after about 5 yrs together, now he says he is Pagan. He actually dabbles in candle magic now too. I have never told him to "be" anything, he is just liking how I think and what I do and most of that comes from living Pagan.