I was just wondering if anyone has had a similar experience. Prior to starting to vape 4 months back, my fiancé and I both smoked cigarettes. He usually goes in the basement and I would go on the front porch. When I first started, I started to do it in the living room with him in there and he said "your not doing THAT in the house, are you?" I tried to explain to him that it is not the same as smoking and my vaping in the living room smells a lot better than the cigarette smoke that comes up through the basement. We work opposite shifts, so I started just going outside when he is home. But, it is getting a to be too cold for me to want to go outside anymore when it really should not be necessary. The other day, I thought he was asleep downstairs and I had vaped a little in the bedroom and he came upstairs and yelled at me. OK, I won't vape in the bedroom anymore, I can handle that - but I think anywhere else should be ok. He always complains about "being able to smell it". I ask if it smells bad, to which he always says not - but the fact that he can smell it is a problem for him.
Whenever I get a package in the mail, he gives me a hard time.
I have asked him a few times why he hates it so much and I have gotten the following responses:
"it's just weird to carry such a big thing around" (at that time it was a 30W istick lol)
and
"you spend too much money on it"
then I remind him of the various hobbies that he has like fishing and hunting that require gear, money and time.
Im just tired of being made fun of in my own home for making a positive change in my life. Even worse I am disgusted by the smell of cigs now - but I refuse to be the quitter who acts holier than thou so I don't say anything. So it would be great if he would do it too, but that is never going to happen So to my questions:
Has anyone else had a similar experience with a significant other?
Whenever I get a package in the mail, he gives me a hard time.
I have asked him a few times why he hates it so much and I have gotten the following responses:
"it's just weird to carry such a big thing around" (at that time it was a 30W istick lol)
and
"you spend too much money on it"
then I remind him of the various hobbies that he has like fishing and hunting that require gear, money and time.
Im just tired of being made fun of in my own home for making a positive change in my life. Even worse I am disgusted by the smell of cigs now - but I refuse to be the quitter who acts holier than thou so I don't say anything. So it would be great if he would do it too, but that is never going to happen So to my questions:
Has anyone else had a similar experience with a significant other?