Anneling, from wickepedia:
Annealing, in metallurgy and materials science, is a heat treatment that alters the physical and sometimes chemical properties of a material to increase its ductility and reduce its hardness, making it more workable. It involves heating a material to above its recrystallization temperature, maintaining a suitable temperature, and then cooling.
Yes, you need a blow torch, if you are going to do it to straight wire. I just run my blowtorch up and down the strip I plan to use for wrapping (if I anneal before winding, I've gotten better at it). It does make it easier to work with.
I have a fine motor tremor too, so I'm doubly impressed.
I don't know of too much else you can use to anneal than a cheap blowtorch (can get one at any Lowe's, Walmart, etc., you need something that will really heat it.
Ironically, I have many of them, as the kiddo loved to "solder art" when he was a kid. I used to "supervise" this activity in the most rudimentary of ways, because the kiddo was better at tools than me from a very young age. I got him an electric screwdriver when he was 3ish one Christmas (parents universally say, "You did what?" when I mention it) and he took apart all my dining room table and chairs, every last screw, in a (unusually) quiet period, so, he's good with tools. I had to actually learn how to work one, once I was getting ready to build.
It makes a measurable difference, although you seem to be doing pretty well without one. LOL. But, stainless steel is "springier" and until you get used to it (or, get a blow torch) I found kanthal far easier for winding myself, but I prefer stainless steel. For spaced coils in particular though, I would recommend it, it makes it easier to maintain an even "tension" on the wire. I really can only do it because I've been a knitter forever. Good knitting also requires constant, even tension. .I actually find spaced coils without the "wrap" part of the jig, easier than contact coils.. I usually wrap spaced, and then smush them together at the end with the jig to get contact coils, if I want one for space reasons and etc.
Good luck.
:Anna