Exactly right.
I don't mind the rules as much as other people do and I'm a die-hard ECF-er. I understand the arguments on both sides, however.
From what I've read about Roxy's recent debacle, I get the feeling that she wasn't treated with kindness and respect she deserves. Roxy was one of the most knowledgeable members of this forum and she was always incredibly helpful to all of us. I've learned a lot from her myself and I'm truly sorry that she's gone. Her departure, for whatever reason, is a huge loss to our community.
I don't know all the details, of course, but if she left because of heavy-handed moderation and/or lack of proper and courteous communication with the staff, it's really a shame.
Just another attempt at constructive feedback from a supportive veteran member.