Oh, I don't disagree with her... I was out of control. We should be worrying about retirement, not overspending on things that we will never get around to using.
I can definitely sympathize. I have very rarely used my credit card for vape purchases. I pay the bills and manage the checking account so I don't think my wife has much of an idea what I spend on vape gear. However, I am trying very hard to scale back. I added my purchases up for the month of November and it made me sick. It's very easy to let it get out of hand. Its 20 here and 15 there but it all adds up quick. I doubt very seriously that I'll be able to stop buying but it sure is going to be a lot less. At least I hope so anyway.