Hi all hope everyone is having a great day!
Finally filed for divorce today after 2 yrs and 5 months seperation. Of course that isn't much time compared to 31 yrs of marriage. Anyhoo, my days are looking lots brighter with that weight off of my shoulders.
Computer parts ordered so now the wait begins. Oh, oh and oh finally tax refund was in the bank today so my dwiddleing savings (from computer parts) is partially refurbished so that's a good thang. Ya know when Life gives you lemons, make lemonade!
Finally filed for divorce today after 2 yrs and 5 months seperation. Of course that isn't much time compared to 31 yrs of marriage. Anyhoo, my days are looking lots brighter with that weight off of my shoulders.
Computer parts ordered so now the wait begins. Oh, oh and oh finally tax refund was in the bank today so my dwiddleing savings (from computer parts) is partially refurbished so that's a good thang. Ya know when Life gives you lemons, make lemonade!

However I'm giving myself about 12-14 months to do it. Then it's about 2000-2200 calories a day with a little less intense daily workout and I'm good to go in maintenance mode. No weird food, no killer workouts and no unrealistic diets....I expect to be able to maintain this well into my 70s and beyond if I watch how much I let myself eat. 2200 calories is really a lot now that I have a better understanding of what I'm consuming. If I splurge a day then the others in the week will make up for it. Binging is over but I think I can live without eating an entire crave case myself (White Castle reference). Brew
thanks, I'll remember that. I'm not ready nor do I want a "relationship" right now, I just want a good FWB or is that a F w/good B.......
Shoot let's just add candle light and music and make it a slow Par...tay. That's always a good way for me to glitch my .....y self, lol.

