That's all really great advice and kind words Joan, Thank you!! She won't really tell me "why" .... she makes excuses like "my battery died" or "I have to fill my tank" ... but theres no reason for that when she has a VV3, MVP2, and a Vision Spinner 2, she also has multiple tanks, some brand new that she won't clean or set up. I'm feeling like she's just not wanting to be bothered with any of the maintenance and it's just easier to smoke. I can only help her so much, she really has to stop being lazy about it. Not sure how to motivate her enough, I like the emotional blackmail idea though, and my birthday is coming up soon