Welcome!!!! I'm new here too, and I have learned so much!!!! I've been vapping for a little over a month, and since my eGo arrived, I have taken 3 drags off a cigarette, and it almost made me toss my cookies! (YUCK) For me, and I can be a little bit of an airhead, there was quite a bit of trial and error. But I do feel as if I'm getting it, slowly but surely. There was also an adjustment period switching cigarettes to my eGo that I didn't think would happen. I still felt the need to go outside and smoke, I kind of missed that. As well as the other little habits you develop as a smoker, but I didn't have the nicotine withdrawal as if I was 'quitting'. (Lucky for my family) But now I'm very happy vapping on my couch! Bahahahaaa. Anyway, sorry for the rambling... just wanted to wish you and your wife the best of luck, enjoy your new hobby, and happy vapping! 