Only time will tell if folks that NEVER SMOKED but started vaping with nicotine will end up dependent on nicotine. I agree that we that smoked are dependent on it but studies have been done that show that NEVER smokers taking nicotine did not become dependent on it.
I confess that I am dependent on nicotine. I see dependence and addiction as two different things. Several years ago I had to start taking a strong prescription pain reliever. I took them for almost a year. Coming off of those things wasn't pleasant. I actually had a physical reaction to that but managed to wean myself off of them. I have NEVER felt anything like that when I've attempted to stop smoking.
It really is a shame that even we can't seem to separate one from the other. In that case how can we ever expect non-smokers/non-vapers to understand the difference if even we can't see and understand it.