Dusting myself off
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I'm doing good now (and I lost 250lbs of useless (soon to be ex) fat!). I let myself have a lot of self pity for many months but it's time to move on. There's always some excuse not to do what's best for one's self. Time for that to end!
I'm doing good now (and I lost 250lbs of useless (soon to be ex) fat!). I let myself have a lot of self pity for many months but it's time to move on. There's always some excuse not to do what's best for one's self. Time for that to end!
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Ya can't live with them and ya can't shoot 'em. so, moving on and taking care of yourself is the next best thing. have you checked out your social group yet? it's still here 
Hi Kat. I can see how falling off the wagon could have happened following this high-stress, unfortunate time in your life. I'm sorry to hear of your split. It's never easy. I did the same thing when I broke off my engagement a few years back. I hope you find strength and peace in forgiving, loving yourself and in continuing forward one day at a time. Welcome back, dearheart.
Kat! I am soooo sorry to hear you fell off the wagon..but you could have saved yourself a lot of trouble by just backing the wagon up over a certain someone!
(((Hugs and love!)))
You have a family here to support you. Welcome home!!!
(((Hugs and love!)))
You have a family here to support you. Welcome home!!!
That's right. And I don't know how vengeful you feel, but if you want to really get back at him, shower him up to his eyebrows with love and forgiveness. Believe me, that rarely fails! When he returns the favor, neither of you will have karmic debts. See how it works?
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WTG !!!!!! I know we suck at times...well most of us do... ALL the time...BUT remember were not all the same.
Thanks all. Nah I have no contact with him at all. I have let go of a lot of anger. For the parts I'm still upset about, well, I just have to accept that stuff happens. I try to judge everyone as an individual so no man hating here (maybe a lil fear of getting hurt again but not hate).
I just realized I don't have my direct charger anymore...must've left it at his house. Still have my PT and my case charger though and amazingly all my batteries and juice are still good (it's a sign!).
I just realized I don't have my direct charger anymore...must've left it at his house. Still have my PT and my case charger though and amazingly all my batteries and juice are still good (it's a sign!).
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Kat !!! Too much stuff !! Glad to hear you are healing up and moving on !! (((hugs))) !!!!!!!
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I've been there. You have lots of awesome things ahead of you, and in the grand scheme of things, this is just going to be a little tiny speed bump. It's all gonna be fine!
I've been there. You have lots of awesome things ahead of you, and in the grand scheme of things, this is just going to be a little tiny speed bump. It's all gonna be fine!
The great thing about that attitude is that the unexpected things are sometimes wonderful!
In my early adulthood, I stayed in an extremely abusive relationship. At much too young an young age, I was old and haggard looking. As soon as I wised up and dissolved the relationship, I began to do all the things for myself that returned my youth, energy and radiance. You know, stuff like exercising, visiting friends and getting out more, pampering myself, etc. Everyone in the village that saw me out and about remarked at how good I looked lately and asked what I had been doing. That really boosted my confidence and helped to diminish my depression.
I think daily stress and strife are sickly to the spirit and soul and therefore reflects in our physical appearance. I wish you a speedy recovery and hope you seek and reach out to the fun and beauty life still has to offer. I hope your concern and sadness of this current situation is short-lived. Peace and hugz to you, dearheart!
I think daily stress and strife are sickly to the spirit and soul and therefore reflects in our physical appearance. I wish you a speedy recovery and hope you seek and reach out to the fun and beauty life still has to offer. I hope your concern and sadness of this current situation is short-lived. Peace and hugz to you, dearheart!
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