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You'd have to educate me as to what that means exactly. I don't really visit reddit.

I have seen dream theater live twice now. I'm a big Jon petrucci fan

Reddit has an Electronic Cigarettes sub forum. If you posted that coil on there, it would probably get lots of upvotes which would keep it at the top of the threads list :)

Dream Theater - saw them live a few times, most recently in April. I was a little disappointed with the last concert. It was two one hour long sets of shredding, jam style, and they really lost the crowd. No one was standing up, we all got so mathematically messed up trying to follow the riffing. Sure they play clean and technical, but I would have liked at least a little bit of melodic familiarity - I have (and listen to) all their recordings including the live releases. All in all it came off rather arrogant :(

And I dig John Petrucci too. I went home and put on Change of Seasons and listened to that 12937197 minute long song (k that might be an exaggeration) over and over again :)
 

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Agreed. People like to hide everything lol. And if you try to be open and honest about stuff, certain people will call you an ......, lol. Thats why its important to always be your true self when dating.. My gf got just the ...... she was expecting, and to this day still loves me:)

Your representative can only be present for so long. Trust me, I've been there. :D
 

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Double post sorry. Hahahahaha!!! We think the same
Ive sat there and laid it all out for my buddies in the past and still watch them fall on their face. Impossible for them to grasp the concept of going into a situation with the mindset of having already won, lol. Women smell insecurity from 50 yards, lol.
 

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Yeah. It's not that there is NO single guys... it's just the few that are, (around here anyway) are single for a reason... If you know what I mean.
Divorce will do that to a guy. But yeah I gotchoo alot of guys just don't know how to treat a woman. I have the hardest time with really great women that have suckie boyfriends/hubbies .. that treat them like trophies or something.
 

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Everyone is shallow to an extent... They just won't admit it. LoL
Everyone has the capability to be shallow - it comes (I believe) from the ego trying to fulfill itself. But when we let that go we can see people as whole beings - not just pretty faces or hot bodies.

And don't think for one moment that I don't appreciate a body. Arm candy is nice, but it's more for external admiration. We all still have to go home and be with ourselves. External validation doesn't sustain itself :)

I wish we could all have a vape party around a camp fire and get all deep talky...followed by some silly jokes to lighten the mood. For hours :) that'd be fun!
 

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Ive sat there and laid it all out for my buddies in the past and still watch them fall on their face. Impossible for them to grasp the concept of going into a situation with the mindset of having already won, lol. Women smell insecurity from 50 yards, lol.

You better believe it. That's the biggest turn-off for women I think..well that and toe sucking! Ha! :p
 

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I hear ya and at the first canoodling complaint,(even if we were just playing around, bored) we stopped that. I'm just the type that kids around a lot. Guess I'm taken the wrong way a lot. :(
I've never taken you the wrong way. We like the same things. Boats, beer, wings, vaping. You're a-okay in my book.
 

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I'm going to PIF you some of the 15ml juices I got when I figure out what all to send you. All are 50/50 6mg.

UM. OK!!! Who could say no to that. As always let me know if there is something you want from my stash. I have the swap sheet but I also have a flavor notes sheet and would be happy to VIF some mls from there too.
 

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Everyone has the capability to be shallow - it comes (I believe) from the ego trying to fulfill itself. But when we let that go we can see people as whole beings - not just pretty faces or hot bodies.

And don't think for one moment that I don't appreciate a body. Arm candy is nice, but it's more for external admiration. We all still have to go home and be with ourselves. External validation doesn't sustain itself :)

I wish we could all have a vape party around a camp fire and get all deep talky...followed by some silly jokes to lighten the mood. For hours :) that'd be fun!

I have a big farm. We should all get together here and have a vapefest. Big field party, lots of wine, yall bring some nap supplies and tents/sleeping bags and I will too, and well party like 20 year olds.
 

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Everyone has the capability to be shallow - it comes (I believe) from the ego trying to fulfill itself. But when we let that go we can see people as whole beings - not just pretty faces or hot bodies.

And don't think for one moment that I don't appreciate a body. Arm candy is nice, but it's more for external admiration. We all still have to go home and be with ourselves. External validation doesn't sustain itself :)


I wish we could all have a vape party around a camp fire and get all deep talky...followed by some silly jokes to lighten the mood. For hours :) that'd be fun!

Can I get a pity invite for the campfire thing? Since this is the first time I've posted here. I'm not a Creepster. Promise.
 

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UM. OK!!! Who could say no to that. As always let me know if there is something you want from my stash. I have the swap sheet but I also have a flavor notes sheet and would be happy to VIF some mls from there too.

Only if it is AHL. Can't say I like much else atm.
 

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Probly because they fall al over themselves around girls, lol. Aloof! Stupid mofos just cant figure it out sometimes. Never seem too available guys, wtw

It's not so much that because honestly, the taken ones are the ones that fall over me (IRL) but yeah.. It's not attractive. But girls (typically) don't want a guy that's a complete douche either... Just a partial one.
 

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Divorce will do that to a guy. But yeah I gotchoo alot of guys just don't know how to treat a woman. I have the hardest time with really great women that have suckie boyfriends/hubbies .. that treat them like trophies or something.
No, I'm talking about single guys that have never been married. Not talking about jaded guys... Talking about awkward ones. Like, honestly, the only sure bet to meet anyone these days is online. And if you're a girl, 90% of the time, you'll either find a dude that only wants to get in your pants (i can find that anywhere) or a really awkward dude that is more socially-inept than I am. I don't need that.
 

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It's not so much that because honestly, the taken ones are the ones that fall over me (IRL) but yeah.. It's not attractive. But girls (typically) don't want a guy that's a complete douche either... Just a partial one.
True true. Im cynical and sarcastic, but I balance it out for her with being loving and funny, and other stuff too:) Cant ever let em figure you all the way out, lol
 

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Everyone has the capability to be shallow - it comes (I believe) from the ego trying to fulfill itself. But when we let that go we can see people as whole beings - not just pretty faces or hot bodies.

And don't think for one moment that I don't appreciate a body. Arm candy is nice, but it's more for external admiration. We all still have to go home and be with ourselves. External validation doesn't sustain itself :)

I wish we could all have a vape party around a camp fire and get all deep talky...followed by some silly jokes to lighten the mood. For hours :) that'd be fun!
Well, you have to be attracted to the person, inside/out. That doesn't necessarily mean that they're "hot" to everyone, but they're hot to you. That's all that matters. The guy I was most in love with wasn't the most gorgeous guy. (He wasn't ugly... just not gorgeous) But his personality and mind were amazing. We had the most deep conversations and that's what you really need. Because when you get older, the looks fade and you find there's nothing else you had in common. Sitting in silence... LoL
 

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No, I'm talking about single guys that have never been married. Not talking about jaded guys... Talking about awkward ones. Like, honestly, the only sure bet to meet anyone these days is online. And if you're a girl, 90% of the time, you'll either find a dude that only wants to get in your pants (i can find that anywhere) or a really awkward dude that is more socially-inept than I am. I don't need that.

OIC like one of those 24 year old 11 year olds. I never was like that. Tried to keep a balance of taking it slow and keeping them laughing. It helps to have good social skills also. Moms seem to like that but dads, I have had plenty of girls dads that just didn't like the way I looked. It could have been the motorcycle though. lol
 
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