why is it that some people are so compelled to react to a stimulus that they HAVE to stop what they are doing to "reply" to that stimulus??? for example, the wifeys phone rings, the wifey HAS to answer it, and if its my phone thats ringing, she will hand it to me so it can be answered, and if I dont want to answer my own phone she gets all wiggy that I didnt answer it. And even better yet, if someone knocks on the door, she has to go see who's at the door ( even if it means getting out of a warm and cozy bed, still in her jammies) while Im walking towards the door to answer it?? I just dont understand...

and one more thing that mystifies me... when the wifey answers her phone she will say "hello"... and if there is no reply on the other end she will say hello several more times and then hang up... if I say hello and nothing is said in return within 3 seconds, I hang up... I dont play the hello, hello, hello, hello game