Actually learning to deal with the gear and its problems is part of becoming a vaper. You can help her avoid some of the pitfalls by starting her on a good kit. You can teach her the process fro troubleshooting gear. After that it is up to her. What you cannot do is protect her from herself. Maybe vaping is a slippery slope to smoke or maybe it isn't. You can't decide that only she can.
HELP Girlfriend (nonsmoker) wants a PV
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Actually learning to deal with the gear and its problems is part of becoming a vaper. You can help her avoid some of the pitfalls by starting her on a good kit. You can teach her the process fro troubleshooting gear. After that it is up to her. What you cannot do is protect her from herself. Maybe vaping is a slippery slope to smoke or maybe it isn't. You can't decide that only she can.
If she wants to and she is dead set on it just pushing for her not to will just drive a wedge between you two. Your kids won't pick up the habit just because you and your wife were, that is incorrect. Just help her get good equipment and feel good that she decided to vape instead of possibly going back to smoking.
Well said and I appreciate the response. I worry for my daughter as grew up in a troubled household with 2 alcoholic parents and think about drinking every day.
p.s. your girlfriend is not a NON-smoker....she is an EX-smoker. there IS a difference
are you single?
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she is old enough to be your live-in gf and have a child but not old enough to protect herself from herself?
vaping does not lead to smoking.....smoking can and usually does lead to vaping tho....
i have a friend that didn't smoke for 9 years...now she vapes...she actually planted the ecig seed by coming around with a cigalike...i got vapegear and introduced her AND her husband to the world refillable/rechargable/VV devices.....and he is off of tobacco altogether
i have another friend that quit smoking for 20+ years....yep..she smokes again...she never vaped...but she started smoking again and hasn't stopped for the last 3 years
for me being told "i can do this but you can't...", chances are i'd already have gotten a better setup than what you use LOL
believe it or not...i think little girls look up to their daddy a whole lot more than their mommy so that "she's a woman thing" is just silly.
help your gf or she just might find a new bf that will...like Lerxst LOL
Good point and thank you.
As for the girls look up to their daddy thing? Maybe in a few years. first words outta my kids mouth when I pick her up...''Is Kaylee gonna be there?'' then we walk in and she follows her around like a dog telling me it's a girls only party!
Gotta love living with 3 women lol!
That's what I'm thinking. Vaping would be such a good experience for her she wouldn't need to smoke. Vamo, eVic, Provari if need be. A run through all the tops I've been through over the years to figure out what works best for her and new and modern versions of what works showing up by next week.
Why are you running out in the middle of the day after that long of vaping?
I fiddle maybe once a day now and I've only been back at it for a little over a year.
Her desire to vape should be telling you she's not as strong as you think she is and she's picking vaping over cigarettes. I think you're too busy being impressed that she has quit smoking for so long you're not able to focus on what the fact that she wants to vape because of stress is really saying.
Of course I don't now, it's a science. But in the beginning you will, even with a mentor you think ''I have enough" no need to get outta bed and charge that battery. Or when running late to work, you forget that 10ml bottle. we've all been there.
I just heard a thundering sound, as if a million people facepalmed in unison. Cut your GF some slack, vape outdoors away from the children and take your GF out to dinner as an apology.
LMAO i was thinking the same thing but couldnt think of a good way to word it. you nailed it sir.
This.
That's exactly what it is. I could never quit, I had to vape. She cold turkeyd the .... out of cigs, I couldn't. She is stronger than me, maybe she can vape and not smoke. If she was able to avoid cigs for 3 years she should have the strength to not smoke if she has to go a few hours without vaping because of a mishap.
Thank You
That may have been the sound of you fapping at home all alone?
If you can dish it out you gotta take it
That may have been the sound of you fapping at home all alone?
If you can dish it out you gotta take it
That would be inappropriate, I'm in the office. Nice fail on your part though.
Let me tell you something... I was a non smoker for 2 years and HATED my life. Went back to smoking. Vaping has saved me, givin me something to replace smoking, given me something to even out my moods from hormones and meds and made me very happy. No nicotine isn't 'good' for you, neither is coffee, sugar, fried foods or McDonald's.
Not sure about this one...
Not sure about this one...
"Its not illegal its just frowned upon. Like .........ing on a plane."
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