Hi All

[New to vaping]

Just started vaping,was not really a smoker but figured I'd try for the heck of it. Seems safe an all. One problem. my partner (I am a gay female in a committed relationship of 5 years) is really against smoking, and probably vaping too IDK we never really discussed vaping.
I feel a little bad hiding it from her but what's the big deal right?
Hoping to learn an get to know more about this

 

[FlyerTom]

 

[DeloresRose]

Trust is essential in a relationship. It is ages years to build and a spit second to destroy. I would advise having a conversation about this at your earliest convenience. Maybe she’s okay with vaping, and you’re free to continue with no static. Maybe she’s not, and you have to decide whether it’s worth it to vape without her approval, or to give it up to appease her.

But regardless, you need to ask yourself is it worth losing her trust over something so small and insignificant?

 

[somdcomputerguy]

Welcome to ECF, New to vaping.

 

[New to vaping]

Trust is essential in a relationship. It is ages years to build and a spit second to destroy. I would advise having a conversation about this at your earliest convenience. Maybe she’s okay with vaping, and you’re free to continue with no static. Maybe she’s not, and you have to decide whether it’s worth it to vape without her approval, or to give it up to appease her.

But regardless, you need to ask yourself is it worth losing her trust over something so small and insignificant?

Thanks for the advice... I think you're right. I worry that she will not approve but honesty is the best policy, right?

 

[DeloresRose]

Thanks for the advice... I think you're right. I worry that she will not approve but honesty is the best policy, right?

I was married 31.5 years. You don’t live with someone that long without one - or both- of you doing something the other doesn’t approve of.

There were things he did that I really didn’t care for - and I had to be honest and say if one was a dealbreaker, or, if I could live with it. And he did the same.

I guess each of us has to decide what we’ll put up with, and what crosses the line. For me, cheating, abuse, and lies cross the line. All the other stuff is just stuff.

 

[BrotherBob]

Hoping to learn an get to know more about this

Welcome and glad you joined.
The information below may help you learn more about vaping:
Reference-Guides Archives - The Vapers Table
A Word On Vaping Technique | Nicoticket
Buying and Using an Electronic Cigarette: A Primer
(10) Advancing Up the Vaping Ladder with Egos and Mods | E-Cigarette Forum
Vaping: Let's Get This Out Of The Way · Vaping Links And More
Visual Learning - Beginner's guide to vaping : electronic_cigarette
frequently_asked_questions - electronic_cigarette

 

[New to vaping]

Welcome and glad you joined.
The information below may help you learn more about vaping:
Reference-Guides Archives - The Vapers Table
A Word On Vaping Technique | Nicoticket
Buying and Using an Electronic Cigarette: A Primer
(10) Advancing Up the Vaping Ladder with Egos and Mods | E-Cigarette Forum
Vaping: Let's Get This Out Of The Way · Vaping Links And More
Visual Learning - Beginner's guide to vaping : electronic_cigarette
frequently_asked_questions - electronic_cigarette

Awesome- thanks for the info!!!

 

[DLKnives]

Welcome from Las Vegas!

 

[MJCSD]

Hello and welcome to ecf

 

[vaper1960]

First off, I'd like to say that many of my friends go "this way, the other way, or both" Never cared since 1979 (went to a party and these two guys sat on a bench were you had to "rub" against their legs to get through (I had no issues with that actually, just got annoying that I didn't have a choice) My friend said, they are not going to make issues... just doing it for fun. After that, I played along... teased them and it was all for fun... rather enjoyed the game. Also, my wife (separated only by distance and circumstance) works and lives with a "gay" woman. We are older and these are issues we got over many years ago. Anyway...
Yes, be honest (but don't push the issue) In fact, maybe it's not an issue (don't make it one) It is so much better than smoking! Just go with that... peace out, vape on! (just make it a positive thing )