I am what some call a "late bloomer". I actually came out around 30. Ironically when I came out each one of my family members told me "I knew that". I kept thinking Hell why didnt you tell me. There was a definite strain for a couple of years but they finally warmed up. Of course they love my partner which definitely helps. I am try to figure out some ways to start up conversation in here. If you have any ideas run with them.