While I understand your frustration and where you are coming from, the majority of your frustration is coming from yourself. I could understand before they started shipping at all why you might have been worried that perhaps we all had been scammed, but at this point, many of us have received our devices, so unless you think that Jon decided to honor everyone else's order and just screw you and you alone over, I'm not really sure where your fear is based.
Now don't get me wrong, I like most everyone else, loves immediate satisfaction. I want to order something and have it the next day, and I get that, but I think if you just kinda took a step back and waited till you got a shipping notification or a device in the mail and then just enjoy it, you would relieve yourself of a great deal of stress. It's not as if you are waiting for a heart transplant and if you don't get in in 48 hours you are dead, it's just an e-cig.
Personally I want NexGen to take off. I like the Futura (based on reviews) but I love that they are trying to source everything from USA. How they handle things now will dictate their future in this business. With so many people switching over from analogs every day, the money is there for the taking. If I tell someone the Futura is great, but their service is horrible, how many sales will I have put off?
IMHO they shouldn't have taken peoples money until they were actually shipping product. If they needed the funds, that's what Kickstarter is for. There is no excuse for just going silent having taken a bunch of people's money. Tell people about the delay, tell them what part broke on your CNC or who is giving you delays. Most importantly, it should be posted on their web site, not a thread in someone else's forum. This type of behavior isn't acceptable for normal people, regardless of if it seems to be the norm in the e-cig community.
I want a Futura, I will order a Futura, and hopefully I will recommend them to others once this whole production thing works itself out. I would love for them to eventually start making other mods, make a hybrid atomizer, maybe build in a USB charger. I'd get them for gifts, something nice that they can keep for a long time and I can personalize for them. An eGo is to get a friend to quit analogs, this would be something I could get for my mother or sister as a Christmas present. No way I could sit there and explain ohms law and all those button clicks to my mom, VW is necessary for the future.
I'm really hoping Jon gets the waiting list working on the website (I asked him about it last week via email), as well as some more updates. I guess this is always the problem being an early adopter.