I'm gonna throw OTD under the bus and say it must have been his fault.

Honestly, it's most likely that he's busy between work and band practice.
hahahaha. this ^ exactly.
too much work,holidays, 3 bands (got asked to join another one but it would entail a 90 mile drive one way by myself once a week - don't know if i could swing it but it sure is a nice problem to have)and the wife is still working crazy holiday/inventory hours so i'm trying to not let the house suffer too much.
looks like things have chilled out and normalized a bit though.i've been toying with adding melatonin to my prescribed sleeping pills and it seems to be helping a lot and the wife's inventory is coming up so there will be some chill time for her after that.
i did score a super nice guitar dirt cheap this week though (the one in the middle):
and i've written some good songs with guys i like hanging around with so things are good.BUSY, but, good
