It's fine with me if you do it. I'm just saying I don't understand it.
I might let a LION boss me around, but not a cat. I like them and owned several until I got allergic.
My last one was a wild kitten and he had a crooked tail from getting it caught in the garage door. He was quite the wildebeest. I named him Napoleon, for the tail.
He was always taking off for days, then showing up at my window wanting to come in. Then, he was gone for a long, long, long time. He showed up a final time (we both knew) like 3 months later, and that was the last time I saw him, other than his crooked tail and it was on some farm, he was going after something.
That was a refreshing cat. I pretty much let him do what he wanted, but hey, it was what it was. Very fun cat to HAVE around.
I don't really consider cats "pets" in the traditional
sense they are more like familiars or something. For a long time while I wanted pets but couldn't own an inside one, I would get a stray show up and hang out. It was pretty great, apart from my son's "I am going to eat dry catfood mom and do it ON PURPOSE because I know it annoys you."
Then a racoon and her kiddos showed up at the bowl and I was like "I don't want my son to eat rabies" so I got more ah, fervent about it.
(I also was not going to give my toddler the power of letting him see it annoyed me, so maybe more catfood was eaten than should have been, IDK. LOL.)
A kid it's lot harder to not have reverse training.
Family therapy------- FORGET IT. You have about 3 effective sessions to assess what the family needs and after that you have JOINED it, and it gets SO MUCH harder. LOL.
I like wild animals (except squirrels).
Anna