Dare I speak up on the topic? I have a very different view of the subject, and can see both sides points. For me, here's what it boils down to. The word "marriage" has been defined in religious circles, translated from ancient scriptures varying from 800-3000+ years, depending on what you read. Most people would agree it's a religious word, and has specific meaning - between a man and a woman. The bible even calls gay people an abomination (if memory serves from my early years in Catholic school).
My personal views are pro-choice. Legally speaking, everyone should be able to share the same benefits, whether straight or gay. However, back to the religious people. The word "marriage" is sacred, so you might be able to sympathize that putting the words "gay" and "marriage" together is insulting to the very origins of the religious term. With that, I cannot disagree. So what's the answer? Some states are calling it a "union" rather than "marriage". This makes more
sense, considering "union" can apply to a heterosexual couple as well - it's a legal term, and properly used with a homosexual couple IMHO. Since "marriage" is a religious term, and "union" a legal term, I have to take the side of religion when it comes to terminology.
It's all about respect, and I have respect for both sides. I respect the religious with their sacred word, but I also respect the homosexual couples who deserve equality. Not looking for a debate - this is one of those topics that should never be brought up in an open forum as it almost always leads to intervention - just stating my opinion. Terminology aside, all that matters is two people are happy together. It's a shame how homosexual people have been treated historically, but then again, humanity has a history of mistreating its fellow man.
Congrats again to Rod & Charlie.