Over on the Front Porch (that's SO much more definitive than "the other thread"), I posted about helping a young lady I know get acquainted with ecigs.
This got me thinking about the seemingly Lost Art of Listening. She was a very good listener, and learned a lot as a result.
I'm often approached by people seeking advice on things I'm "known for"... Mostly computers, sometimes photography/cameras or gardening, and now ecigs.
Is it just me, or is there a growing percentage of people who will ask a question and, for chrissakes, won't SHUT UP long enough for me to get in a whole sentence!!!
It took me a while, but I've learned over the years to keep it simple. Most people's eyes will glaze over if given too many details or too much "technical stuff" at once.
So I get started with as-concise of an answer as I can, and they cut me off mid-sentence with a bunch of blather, like they know more about the subject than I do!
"If you're gonna answer you own questions, cut me off, and generally NOT listen to what I have to say... why the H are you wasting my time?!"
Geeze louise!!
Thank you for listening.
/rant