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What really jerks my 'hook' are da commercials where a fishing reel is held opposite of intended orientation; closed faced spinner and level wind on da bottom, open face spinners up top.
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BTW, my fav commercials of da past are da ol' '70s Olympia (Artisan water) and Bud (amphibians & reptiles) beer series, plus da Bud Christmas Clydesdale seasonal ads! Oh, recently, gotta toss in da 'What day is it?'...

It's Hump dayyyyyyyyyyyyyy. Tomorrow, that is.
 

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I haven't been able to do the Mall for about 16 years now. I just can't walk far enough to make it much past the entrance & back to my truck. I miss it. I worked in retail for about 20 years & stopped when it wasn't fun or intersting anymore. But I love Christmas at the mall. I'm a people watcher, I enjoy watching people & their interactions with each other & their surroundings. I love the zoo for the same reason.
 

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For the last several years, I've done all my Christmas shopping online, can't stand the holiday crowds in stores.


Yeah, I don't know why it's been so hard to come to grips with being on an antidepressant. Been on and off for 8 yrs. I guess it's kinda like my 'sis'/bff, who says she had no problem admitting drug addiction, but had a major time admitting alcoholism. Maybe because alcohol is legal? Or because her parents had martinis for happy hour every day? She grew up in that atmosphere where alcohol was OK. But not for her. I've been fortunate not to have an issue with alcoholism, even though there are alcoholics in my immediate family. Just never really appealed to me. An occasional drink in a social setting or a toast to something and that's it for me. Got enough problems without that too.:laugh:

Well, we certainly got into therapy tonight! :laugh: Dang! :laugh:

Tried to get a good pic of my Panda Bear driptip, but it's not happening. :mad:

That's one thing I have no problem admitting (among a bunch of others). If my admitting to being depressed helps one other person face up to their own depression and get help than it paid off admitting mine. Currently on 40mg of Citolapram twice a day. It's not working as well as it used to so I am going to have to go to my doc and ask for something else. Like most drugs you can build up a tolerance to it and need something different.
 
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What really jerks my 'hook' are da commercials where a fishing reel is held opposite of intended orientation; closed faced spinner and level wind on da bottom, open face spinners up top.
banghead.gif


BTW, my fav commercials of da past are da ol' '70s Olympia (Artisan water) and Bud (amphibians & reptiles) beer series, plus da Bud Christmas Clydesdale seasonal ads! Oh, recently, gotta toss in da 'What day is it?'...

Where's the beef?! Always made me laugh!
 

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Now, I love the malls, the piped in elevator music, the hustle and bustle of the crowds fighting over the last item on the shelves, the watching of the different personalities as they evolve during their shopping experience and just wanting to get their list complete so they can go home and soak their feet, the sales folks and you know they are wondering just what they are doing there, the managers smiling those fake smiles and glancing down at their watches - wishing they had Mikes time machine, the CEO's hoping us saps spend enough so they can get their multi-million dollar bonus's and finally the stock holders hoping to get an increase in their dividends this year if the numbers are good.

How can you not like that... Hmmm, did I make it sound joyful enough... I can try again if you would like... :facepalm: :D

Um Hmm. You didn't go again this year either did you Semi...
 

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OMG! OMG! What a read it was catching up tonight. After our excursion to Babys-R-Us Janet spent the rest of the day and evening baking cookies and I just finished wrapping the last of the Christmas presents. I can't ever remember not still wrapping or putting together toys on Christmas eve day.

Anyway - so many of you posted such sencere from the heart stories tonight. Now don't take this wrong - but it was nice reading about even the bummer sides of your lives - you know why? - cause now I don't feel so alone - there's more folks out there dealing with Holiday blues, anxiety and depression besides me. Thank you all so much for sharing. I'm truly grateful we can all come together on this virtual porch and share or stories and our love with each other.

UW - you started it tonight - you bad boy. Actually I didn't find it a downer to read. It made me feel warm feelings for my parents. I never had a close relationship with my father. He was a trucker and away from home a lot. I know he loved me and I loved him and I didn't know how much I missed not being close to him until after he died. Now I think of it often. I saw my Mom for the last time a number of Christmas days back. A few days after that last visit she died of a sudden heart attack alone at home at my sisters place where she lived. Part of me says perhaps that was a good think as she 'went fast' and another selfish part sometimes wishes she was ailing so someone could have been with her when she passed on.

Our daughter was married just before Christmas in 2007. A few weeks after Christmas she lost her husband when his Helo went down at sea. He was a Navy Pilot. It was the happiest and saddest period of our lives. I dealt with severe anxiety/depression for years and still have some anxiety issues going on. I still see a head doc once a month but haven't been on any regular meds for over a year now.

She's finally in a serious relationship again and I thank God for that. Ironically he's an Army Aviator flying basically the same model Helo as her first husband. She went through a lot of soul searching and angst about getting involved with him because of it. But it worked itself out and they seem really in love with each other.

I don't know why - maybe because so many of you opened up tonight, I too thought I tell my story. Christmas for me is a mixed bag of emotions but I just try to concentrate on the joyous happy parts of it.

Just picked up a line the other day that's been sticking with me.

"No amount of regret can change the past and no amount of worry can change the future.

Those words ring so true for me.

Alright - I'm starting to feel like UW when he gets into one of his 'ramblings'. So I'll finsih with:

I'm so thankful for having all of you in my life this Christmas. Merry Christmas one and all.
 
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My daughter just left to do karaoke with her friend. While she was waiting for her friend to be ready, we sat and had a little impromptu chat.

My daughter is so amazing! She's by far the most like me of all my kids. It's through her that I learn to like myself more. She's got a lot of my strengths and my weaknesses. But, through her I can see the weaknesses in a more loving, gentle way. She's just so intelligent, loving, honorable, and well just plain amazing!

I'm honored to be her mother.
 

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That's one thing I have no problem admitting (among a bunch of others). If my admitting to being depressed helps one other person face up to their own depression and get help than it paid off admitting mine. Currently on 40mg of Citolapram twice a day. It's not working as well as it used to so I am going to have to go to my doc and ask for something else. Like most drugs you can build up a tolerance to it and need something different.
That's what I take too, it has saved my life
 

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Well, since we're all talking here. I can hardly wait for this Christmas Season to be over. I haven't liked Christmas for years and now it's even more blah since my mother passed away about 8 years ago. She was the glue that held the family together. Now, the family is splintered as hell, and although I'm tired, I could really care less about going home from work for Christmas. My son and granddaughters are way up north in Indiana. My daughter is spending Christmas with one of her nieces, and I doubt seriously if I'll see my sister or my youngest brother. If it weren't for my other brother who really wants to see me, I would go home and sleep through Christmas Day.

This is my first Christmas off in 8 years, and I truly just want to cry my way through it........no...sleep my way through it. I'll be all right once I see my dog and my cat. I'm tough as nails, and you just can't kill bad grass. :D
 
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This is my first Christmas off in 8 years, and I truly just want to cry my way through it........no...sleep my way through it. I'll be all right once I see my dog and my cat. I'm tough as nails, and you just can't kill bad grass. :D

I'm so sorry. I had planned on being alone too, but have learned to really like being alone. A special day just for me alone.

However, my daughter doesn't have anyplace else to go. So, we may order Chinese food and watch movies (in the afternoon, after she sleeps most of the day recovering from the Xmas party the night before).

So, I'll probably be here on ECF until late afternoon or early evening if you need to talk.
 
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Well, since we're all talking here. I can hardly wait for this Christmas Season to be over. I haven't liked Christmas for years and now it's even more blah since my mother passed away about 8 years ago. She was the glue that held the family together. Now, the family is splintered as hell, and although I'm tired, I could really care less about going home from work for Christmas. My son and granddaughters are way up north in Indiana. My daughter is spending Christmas with one of her nieces, and I doubt seriously if I'll see my sister or my youngest brother. If it weren't for my other brother who really wants to see me, I would go home and sleep through Christmas Day.

This is my first Christmas off in 8 years, and I truly just want to cry my way through it........no...sleep my way through it. I'll be all right once I see my dog and my cat. I'm tough as nails, and you just can't kill bad grass. :D
I know that feel. This has been a rough one for me. Unemployed, sister gone, dad's health failing, mom having a hard time with it, kids growing away from me, house full of people who have "moved in temporarily till they get back on their feet", broke. My only outlet is you guys, without you and my happy pills, the dark rider would be pulling me under about now. Thanks.
 

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Well, since we're all talking here. I can hardly wait for this Christmas Season to be over. I haven't liked Christmas for years and now it's even more blah since my mother passed away about 8 years ago. She was the glue that held the family together. Now, the family is splintered as hell, and although I'm tired, I could really care less about going home from work for Christmas. My son and granddaughters are way up north in Indiana. My daughter is spending Christmas with one of her nieces, and I doubt seriously if I'll see my sister or my youngest brother. If it weren't for my other brother who really wants to see me, I would go home and sleep through Christmas Day.

This is my first Christmas off in 8 years, and I truly just want to cry my way through it........no...sleep my way through it. I'll be all right once I see my dog and my cat. I'm tough as nails, and you just can't kill bad grass. :D

Even when there is no physical presence you are never alone. I would bet that most of us will be on the forum at least part of the day Christmas. If the lonelies hit please jump online. I am sure one of us will be here. Christmas is a celebration that is family and friends. We have the friends part covered so even if family is scattered this year, come on over to the porch and spend some time with your other family.
 

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I know that feel. This has been a rough one for me. Unemployed, sister gone, dad's health failing, mom having a hard time with it, kids growing away from me, house full of people who have "moved in temporarily till they get back on their feet", broke. My only outlet is you guys, without you and my happy pills, the dark rider would be pulling me under about now. Thanks.

Russ, I am positive that the new year is going to bring you good things. Why not think of Christmas as a time to relax. Enjoy the people close to you, even those "temporary" roommates and get your energies together for the challenges of the new job next year. Basically what I am saying is have a Merry Christmas and try to put a good light on the holidays while preparing for the new year. Remember the porches wouldn't be the same without you. Stop by and check in, we'll be here.
 

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They say you can't catch up on sleep. I'm here to say that you can. Went to bed at 9 and woke up at 7:30am.

glad you got a great night's sleep!! Those mini hibernations are great, cept for waking up in a lot of pain from them.

Have not had snow for Christmas here in a long time...

Been cold and wet here too. At least it didn't rain all day. Did you see the lil bow I put on the rain clouds for ya? We don't get much snow here either. Rarely at Christmas, but some years back we did get snow on Easter eve. :facepalm:

I love the Acura commercial with the little widget in the box that pops out and builds into a car when placed in the driveway. "... and that's how Santa get it into his sleigh, son." Really cool animation. As a graphic designer I appreciate good artwork when I see it. Doree gripes when I admire commercials, she thinks watching them is a huge waste of time. I, on the other hand, appreciate the talent and work that goes into them.

Not sure if I've seen that one, will have to watch for it. I too appreciate some good commercials. Of course, I've always said I'm so sappy I'll cry at coffee commercials......but who the heck wouldn't cry when the son sneaks in, unexpectedly at Christmas, while everyone is asleep and wakes them up with the smell of Folgers!!

Willie, you are encroaching on anyone. I would have to say that you are saying what a lot of others are feeling, but just cannot come out in the open with it.

Semi, you said it!! Count me also in this bunch Willie!! We'd all give a lot if we could change any of it, and make any of it better for you, so you didn't have to go through dark times. And that goes for everyone here. But if we can help lighten even a piece of it for a short time, or even just let you know that you're not alone in it....that's what we're here for. Never feel bad for sharing those times. We love you and would be lost without you.

Being a newbie here, albeit I fit in with the demographics, I just want to say thank you to a wonderful group of people. Holidays are not always easy, missing loved ones and reminiscing of the past. I see the camaraderie of this group, and the Front Porch; the memories shared, the feelings shared, the raw emotions shared. I have some of my own, but for now I will just say Thank You, and wish you all the Merriest of Christmases and a Happy, Healthy, Prosperous New Year. I will be lurking.... :blush:

We're glad to have you here. Hope you feel comfortable joining in so we can get to know you.

OH! I got my vapeversary present to myself, today! My new black Vamo and tank came and it looks great with the porcelain black and white Panda Bear drip tip I'd been saving for just the right rig. :) I'm a happy vaper! :banana:

It also helps that I've been back on the Prozac for a couple weeks now, takes that long to kick in for me. Been off for a good year, handling it on my own. But lately, I just wasn't able to kick it and decided I would rather take the Prozac than spend days in bed crying. Don't know why I keep trying to NOT take it, I take other stuff that I will be on the rest of my life, but with an antidepressant, I just keep hoping I can deal. I guess I need to come to terms with the fact that it may also be a maintenance med, like the other medications I'm on for diabetes, Graves, osteoporosis, etc. Maybe I see it as weakness instead of illness. Who knows? Nonetheless, I'm starting to feel better. :)

If you've found something that works, hopefully with no to minimal side effects....I say take it. I don't like taking any pills either, but have to take some. Too many people decide they can handle it on their own, only to realize too late they couldn't. We lost a true treasure this year for much that same reason when one too many things hit. R.I.P Robin. Depression is real, and can't always be dealt with just by puttin on yur big girl panties like some judgmental folks like to think.

And we used to go out and play in the dirt! What's with all the sanitizers now days? This generation is going to have lousey immune systems. Give me a few germs so I can become resistant.

Omggggggggggg this morning was watching some day time talk show....never watch those, but had finished watching a dvr'd movie and it was on that channel....just didn't feel like channel surfing, so it was on. Home and family I think it was. They had some "dr" talking about all the toys kids shouldn't play with....nothing with batteries for little kids, they could get em out of there and swallow them. :facepalm: I was thinking the same thing someone else expressed.....how did we and our kids ever manage to survive childhood. When my son and dil got some skates for her daughter, I saw a pic of her in all her safety regalia. She won't get hurt, cuz I doubt she could even move!! Yeah, I think helmets are a good idea, and maybe some knee pads...but good grief. These kids end up looking like the michelin man! I think she could have fallen off the roof and not gotten hurt. And we didn't just play in the dirt, I'm sure we all ended up eating some of it at some point...for a lot of us, it was intentional! lol I also think seriously that kids today need a little more exposure to germs to build up better immune systems. Not recommending this, but heck, most of us grew up surrounded by smoke so thick in cars and even homes sometimes, that you could barely see the person next to ya, but most of us didn't have asthma. When I last worked at a daycare, most of the kids had asthma, many carried inhalers...and I could believe how many got daily breathing treatments with a nebulizer.

Mall?!!! Don't even use that word! I haven't been in a mall in 10 years or more. Not me! No way!


As far as commercials go: I think that's where my kids picked up my skeptical attitude. Commentary on commercials is like talking to other cars when driving. Just can't help it.

I thought I was the only one you couldn't drag into a mall. I don't go out much at all anymore, but even when I did, I'd rather take a beating than go to a mall. When I was younger, I also enjoyed people watching and all the mall decorations at Christmas, not to mention Hickory Farms samples yummmm lol But now I'd need one of Janet's tranquilizers. Last time I was at a mall was only because my son was there for a second pre audition for American Idol.

Don't you love the list of side effects that takes up 3/4 of the commercial.

And the ones that give you symptoms you already have and are taking that med for. I was watching one for arthritis one day.....symptoms.... may cause pain and stiffness in the joints! :facepalm: :confused: :blink: Some of them just leave me scratchin my head. Can't think of one offhand, but many I think......did anyone really watch this before it was approved.....it's saying the exact opposite of what you're trying to say about your product!

If you can't remember what it was for after five minutes it was extremely poorly done.

Jup........or, like me, you suffer from CRAFT. Can't Remember A F'in Thing!!! lol I forget most things in 5 minutes or less.

Russ, I am positive that the new year is going to bring you good things. Why not think of Christmas as a time to relax. Enjoy the people close to you, even those "temporary" roommates and get your energies together for the challenges of the new job next year. Basically what I am saying is have a Merry Christmas and try to put a good light on the holidays while preparing for the new year. Remember the porches wouldn't be the same without you. Stop by and check in, we'll be here.

Very well put!! I always told my son, sometimes you have to search hard for the positive in a rough situation, but it's usually there, even if it's small. Even a tiniest sliver of faith or hope can shine a light into the darkest of times. I think he's finally beginning to really get that.


Need to say......that while typing this, I've lost several things I typed. My cursor jumps around a lot on me.......so if you ever see stuff totally outta place or repeated, that's why.

Depending on the weather and how I feel I may go to my dil's parent's house for a bit on Christmas day, but at this point it's not looking likely. For the most part I expect Christmas to be much like any other day. For me, the true reason for celebrating is something I can and should celebrate every day, so that's really not such a bad thing. But I'll likely be popping on also. If anyone needs to really talk, pm me your phone number, and I'll make a cheery ho ho ho call to you! Or commiserate with you. lol Whatever you need. I do hope everyone has at least one reason to feel blessed and peaceful....dare I say it....even happy this Christmas!! This is a time that we see so many happy celebrations and often fail to realize that the ones that have those happy celebrations are the exception now more than the rule. But if we can find something positive to focus on rather than the negatives, perhaps we can feel a bit lighter in spirit, and even enjoy the season. Even for those who are alone, at least your not in a chaotic household with people fighting and heathen kids creating havoc. Enjoy the peace! lol I wish everyone of you, my dear friends, a very merry, peace filled, and truly blessed Christmas!!
 
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