Hahahahahahaha!!! Well, I guess that's one way to look at it!


It is pretty awesome to see how strong a relationship can become between people whom have only met online. Boggles the mind sometimes.
True Story (Which is even vape related eventually)
Back in 2003 I started playing The Sims Online and met a young woman(19 at the time) who was being treated very badly by other players. I sort of took her under wing and it eventually came out that about a year earlier she had been in a horrific car wreck (car rolled 7 times after being pushed off an embankment by a drunk driver on black ice). Her injuries were beyond belief many broken bones and severe head trauma. At the time her mental capacity was estimated at 35% of what she had before the wreck. She was easy meat for other players to take advantage of.
1st Miracle: She lived
2nd Miracle: She woke up from the coma
When I met her she was using the game to keep her mind off the pain as she went through many surgeries to rebuild her broken bones.
Eventually I moved her to another game (Second Life) where everything in the game world is player created. I taught her to build stuff there (a rudimentary 3d modeling) and eventually how to use Photoshop to texture her builds. It was a painfully slow process as one of the side effects of head injury for her was a very unpredictable memory. I could teach her something one day and the next it was totally gone. So I would reteach and she would forget. We did this over and over for years.
The one day her dad sat down on her account to talk to me. Her latest tests were in. She had hit 95% of her pre-wreck mental capacity (Hello Miracle 3). The doctors totally credited the creative endeavors + someone to not let her give up with the improvement.
Eventually over time some of her family joined us in the game. In particular her cousin Jimmy who is a member of a Police Special Teams Unit (They are in Canada). He eventually got more of the team in the game and their spouses until we were up to 72 of us gaming together every night.
Our Crew has stuck together through 6 games now and still going strong. We call ourselves a family even though I technically am not. Over all these years together we sure feel like we are. We are all bro or sis to each other. I am actually closer to most of them than I am to my real family. We have never met. It is all online. Never discount how good outcomes can come from online connections.
One interesting side effect of all of this is that I have 9 VapeVerts amongst my Adopted Canadian family now. When I successfully quit they wanted to know how I did it and it went from there.
Btw the young lady in question is now WALKING, married has a job and a little one of her own. Hows that for miracles happen.