
Memory smells?
The smell of a baby - reminds me of my own.
Only song that ever had my name was in "Grease" I have read several posts about all nighters, and I think an all nighter for older folks, is when they sleep all night without getting up to pee.
I have read several posts about all nighters, and I think an all nighter for older folks, is when they sleep all night without getting up to pee.
Well, in my father's case it really was child abuse. He was the youngest of 9 and I think his dad didn't want another mouth to feed. He really wasn't a very nice person. And my Dad was such a gentle soul! My parents raised me to be responsible - you made your bed...
I wasn't shielded from anything, but my Dad was always there with a genuine hug. Don't know how kids today will be able to handle being adults when they're protected from every disappointment or hardship. They grow up with no idea how to figure anything out.
I don't know about you, but that's a rarity for me ..
Well, in my father's case it really was child abuse. He was the youngest of 9 and I think his dad didn't want another mouth to feed. He really wasn't a very nice person. And my Dad was such a gentle soul! My parents raised me to be responsible - you made your bed...
I wasn't shielded from anything, but my Dad was always there with a genuine hug. Don't know how kids today will be able to handle being adults when they're protected from every disappointment or hardship. They grow up with no idea how to figure anything out.
Glad you like the ego VV. I have a Spinner and it works really well.
The theory that our childhood determines who we are does not always hold water ..
The problem with the last generation or two is they are told constantly by parents that they are somehow special .. and I'm sure they are, to the parents .. however, when they get older, they tend to still believe they are special .. which makes them feel somehow entitled .. now, don't get me wrong, all people are special in their own ways .. but without learning to deal with adversity and the curve balls life will throw at you, you cannot grow ..
This reminded me of Mike![]()
The theory that our childhood determines who we are does not always hold water ..
The problem with the last generation or two is they are told constantly by parents that they are somehow special .. and I'm sure they are, to the parents .. however, when they get older, they tend to still believe they are special .. which makes them feel somehow entitled .. now, don't get me wrong, all people are special in their own ways .. but without learning to deal with adversity and the curve balls life will throw at you, you cannot grow ..
I understand exactly what you mean. Lots of folks feel they are entitled, and they don't know the difference between what they need or want.
I took a different take on the "special" aspect with my kids. I told them all they were special, just like everybody else. Of course, we tried to bring out their unique talents and gifts, and let them know they were individuals. They were taught to pave their own way in this world. We taught them how to be fishermen, instead of giving them fish, as the saying goes. Not to say, we didn't provide what they needed growing up. None of them are rocket scientists, but they are good people, and they care about others, so I guess they are special.