Yeah, he tried to get the house before foreclosure cuz he could have paid for it but the courts wouldn't let him touch it the way it was done.That is almost exactly my problem, but in reverse. I can not make her credit bad in anyway. That is one of the things that has been so hard during this time is keeping up with the bills with her name, and making sure I did not "hurt" her though she took me........... You are right it will be good to be done with this and moving on......

I just don't get the yearning to hurt the other spouse in a divorce. I think it's just wrong. Ticks me off when the guy always gets screwed



