I've just been able to catch up reading and I want to offer my sincere condolences to Wifey. I am SO sorry for your loss. Words alone can't address what you're going through. Please, please know that everyone here has love for you, and will do anything we can to help ease the pain. You have real friends here, and we WANT you to be able to lean on us. I've said a special prayer tonight for you and your husband. We really are all here for you and you have our absolute love and sympathies...