You need to sack up and vape where you want to.
I actually go out of my way to vape more in public now with my vamo. I figure the more common it is the more accepted it will be. I find it hard to do this walking in a store or in a busy restaurant though. I think how would I feel eating food while someone was blowing clouds in my direction (even though said cloud is mostly harmless).
It's a balance. We want to stand up for our rights as people, but also be respectful of others while doing it. We don't always get this in return but eventually people will be less naive. I just use the "Lets agree to disagree" instead of getting into a debate with unintelligent people.
San Diego seems to be pretty open to it, but I still feel strange about when and where I vape.
I have a K100 with a ProTank on top but I personally think women get hassled less about vaping. Maybe it's just me but they may look, ask a question here and there but I haven't had anyone really tell me no. But, this is Chicago, we have a vape kiosk at the largest mall in Cook County blocks away from here. I vape at Legoland and no one says boo to me. I'm an annual pass holder. Maybe I spend too much money around here and they don't want to scare me away. I don't get it.
Ive never been approached by someone who doesnt know what an ecig is its been out long enough peoples ignorance to modern things is amazing