OK masters of the sigelei pinky switch... let me try this one on you!
So yes, a bit of heat and the button unscrewed. I put two very small brass washers (flat washers) on the end and screwed it all back together. Very short throw, which I think I like. I tried it out, no fire! Tried turning the button, making sure the lock was screwed all the way down, still nothing. Tried loosening the bottom cap, just breaking it loose, and it fires fine then! Thought maybe the washers were still too big and getting caught on something... or something! Took it all back apart, examined everything very closely, couldn't find the problem. Put it all back together again and you might as well start reading again about three sentences back... you get the idea.
Finally, after a cat made me drop it and the spring and everything went flying I had a better chance to examine the inner workings. I actually squirted some conductive grease into the spring well of the switch and put it all back together. NOW it hits like a freight train, even better than it did before I tried to shorten the throw. But I'm still perplexed where the weak link might have been in my first attempt... is it the switch assembly? The spring inside the switch? How the switch assembly screws into the tube?
As a footnote: I really hope someone convinces Sigelei to let them stock spare parts (including flat top caps, etc.) for these...