Your situation is difficult and I am sorry to hear of it.
I keep falling off that danged wagon too, heck last time I fell off I the wagon ran me over so that I could not catch up and jump back on. Took me finding the REO for the wagon to come back around. As the driver past by I hit him in the head with the pack of stinkies filled with rocks causing him to slow to a crawl, I jumped on, only this time I am stapling my pants to the cart so I can't fall again.
All joking aside, I have fallen back to smoking on a many occasions as some times life is not as fun as we intend and stinkies are easy. I am currently working toward quitting myself. My wife still smokes and has no interest in vaping to date. I currently have a few a day, because this is without a doubt the HARDEST thing I have ever attempted and I am one of the addicts that truly enjoyed smoking. A REO owners support team sounds like just the thing to help. The people here are just so nice and supportive, ya know.
Since getting my REO I smoke far fewer stinkies than I ever have and find myself not going outside more and more. I truly think that if I can get the right mixture of juice and proper coil so that it is as enjoyable as I once found stinkies I could quit them coffin nails forever and support may even make it happen faster.