The long and short of it is, we should not have to hide vaping from public places, and I don't hide it. However this does not mean that just because I "should be allowed" to vape anywhere I please, does not mean its a good idea. There is some gray areas, and common courtesy involved. Just as we don't want our right to vape infringed upon, those who want to eat dinner at a nice restaurant also have the right to do so without vape clouds being blown in their face. You never know if that person beside you has PG/VG sensitivities, or allergies to SOMETHING you are vaping. I use the standard of "would I smoke a cigarette here?" If the answer is yes, then I have no problem vaping. Would I do it at a concert, or in a smoky club, or at the zoo? No problem. In the elevator at work? Never. (Goes back to the "freedom of speech is not absolute- you can't yell 'fire' in a crowded theater.... Or yell a hello to your buddy John on the other side of an airplane ("Hi Jack!!"))
In someone else's car, they do have the right to ask you not to vape. Just like you have the right not to let someone smoke in your car. Now was it right of them to come down on you for vaping? No.
As for the at work thing, although it would be nice to vape at your desk, I can understand why vaping is not allowed (not allowed on any company property for me). Yes, we can argue that its safe. And it mostly is. But for a company to institute a "no tobacco" policy (complain as much as you want, but it does affect your health insurance rates). But where vaping gets in to "gray areas" here, and why they ban it as well: First, many e-juices contain nicotine and or flavorings that are from tobacco. Hard to police that, but the policy is no tobacco. Secondly, even for someone who has completely quit cigs and vapes exclusively, if something happens that you couldn't vape tomorrow, chances are, you would buy a pack of cigarettes. Another point is that you would have a lot of people who would vape at work, but still chain smoke, so the person is still at higher risk for tobacco use related health issues. But then there is the other point that one could actually burn tobacco with a personal vaporizer. In other words, even if I don't agree with company policy against vaping, I do understand the point.
As a side note on appearances..all of the vapers I know in real life would not fit in the stereotypes. Most of us are in or very close to six-figure income, wear the "khakis and polo shirt", and don't have any tattoos (at least visible in normal work clothing). But the funny thing is, I can go into a local vape shop in work clothes, and hold a conversation with someone who fits the "stereotype" of the skater/motocross/goth looking dude who is blowing clouds so thick you can't see 3 feet in front of you in the shop. -- and that person, like most vapers, is genuinely interested in hearing which mods and toppers and juice you use, and why you have the setup you do. And he shares his build tricks and tips with you. Unfortunately, the general public doesn't get to see that side of vaping...
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