Oh I doubt it. In these types of situations it's usually the mom being like, "He's our kid we have to help him!" and the dad is like "NO. He is a deadbeat he should like FIND his OWN way I did."
And everyone in the household hates each other due to all the familial tension, etc.
I mean, I am not saying IT IS this way it's just this way THE MAJORITY of the time as far as I have seen.
I have seen it be functional and happy and the son enters the familial business and has always wanted to but like, seriously these types of questions just don't COME UP. Either the entire family is vaping or not vaping (smoking or not smoking) or the unresentful dad who loves his kid is like, "Sure son, vape on it is YOUR life. Let's figure out some places you can be where your vape won't bother the customers."
Also it sounds like some outside "lot" situation and like, I'm not a gardening store owner but if I WERE I probably would not care for ANY employee to wander around the area, just vaping, even myself because it would put customers OFF. Vaping and vape breaks would be FINE but I would find a place for them to occur away from the public eye, etc.
But ah, sure, a "rights" conversation may not make the situation worse so WHY NOT? Ask, OP and report back?
Also if you want us to convince your dad you kinda need to get him on here, engaging in dialogue. I mean, I can say, "OH GOSH IT'S so UNFAIR" until I'm blue in the face but if you say "Well I posted on this message board and everyone said you should LET me do it."
And he will be like "Uh huh," Then he will go home and argue with his wife/your mother.
None of this is meant to be mean by the way it is meant to be helpful. I know these family work situations get tricky but since I don't know you the "Rest of the story," etc . I do NOT know what to tell you, Maybe I assume but if so, help me to unassume by providing more info.
Anna