I dont let ppl stop me from vaping. I understand the whole,"be polite'' deal but im trying to quit analogs, no one is going to stand in my way. Sorry. You dont want to listen or be proactive, fine, ill take my business elsewhere. End of story.
The only reason smoking has not been completely banned is because of the money it generates,
Yes there are quite a few rich quotes having to do with opinions. While I would love if everyone chose to do the right thing the manager is running a for profit business. It exists to service a public need and make a profit and usually doing the right thing takes a backseat to profits.
I dont let ppl stop me from vaping. I understand the whole,"be polite'' deal but im trying to quit analogs, no one is going to stand in my way. Sorry. You dont want to listen or be proactive, fine, ill take my business elsewhere. End of story.
+ 1 KrisB and hippybrian
Vaping may be our right in our own cars and homes but when you enter another persons home or business you should consider it a privilege. Also consider that perception is reality. If someone perceives your vaping to be a threat than that is their reality. When it happens to me I try to explain it to them as best I can. If it works than great one more person is educated, if not tha when in public they have just as much a right to be there as I do.
The OP was offended because he was still told no after explaining it to the manager but it's his fellow diners that would need the explanation as well. Would you want to spend you dinner going table to table to explain it to each and every patron there plus anyone else who walks in the door? If you were a non vapor would you want your dinner interrupted by some stranger trying to explain something to you that you care little about?
Meh.. I'm not a sheep. I just pick my battles.
I'm not a confrontational person (I'm just cranky). It's easier for me to convert my coworkers to vaping than it is for me to try to talk to total strangers in a restaurant. I've also vaped in hotels at conventions, and have talked up vaping to folks who ask.
I still think that it's a "new" battle we're fighting, and for me personally, I choose to start where I know my explanation stands a chance of being understood and (again my personal opinion) not on a bunch of anti-cig ninnies who will just look at me sideways.
"You must be the change you wish to see in the world." - Mahatma Gandhi
Or in this scenario - If we want others to become tolerant of our vaping than we should start by becoming tolerant or their misunderstandings.
I work in a restuarant and our proprieter is an ex-smoker. When the laws against smoking were put into place, he was a very happy guy, but still allowed us to utilize smoke breaks, as well as our normal designated breaks. It's been almost a year since I started vaping, and the question he posed to me when he found out was, "So with that, you can basically smoke indoors right?" My answer was just because I technically "could" vape inside with it, I wouldn't. My reason for this, is because I'm still reaching up hand to mouth, no matter if I have my provari in hand, or if its my eGo. Its problamatic for me to assure him that its safe, when I'm still contaminating my hands.
As far as customers go, he doesn't make a big deal about vaping in the restuarant, but would really prefer that they didn't because of a "family" type atmosphere. If another customer makes a stink about it, my boss explains to them that while he knows what it is due to an employee that works there, he politely asks them not to continue due to the ignorance of others.
We all have our part to play in matters such as this, and while vaping doesn't pose any known dangers to other people that are around the exhaled vapor, we shouldn't go out of our way to insist it be the other way. Educate those that ask, nod to those who give you weird looks, and remind yourself that change doesn't happen overnight, its an ongoing process.
That depends on what is ment by "tolerant of their misunderstandings". There is a balance that needs to be struck between vaping around others and never vaping around others. For example, only vaping around smokers is NOT the answer to educating others to the fact that vaping is not harmful to others. More than enough studies have shown that it is not harmful to others. Sitting in a packed restruant and blowing vaper in other people's faces is also not the answer.
If we never vape in the open where the uninformed can see it and present the opportunity to explain that it is completely different than smoking from a safety standpoint, then the uninformed will stay uninformed.
"tolerant of their misunderstandings" simply means not acting like a jackwagon and getting one's panties in a bunch because someone isn't willing to accept a complete strangers word that it is completely harmless. Besides it is far too early in the game to try and claim completely harmless. Sure there are plenty of encouraging studies but no where near enough data to make long term conclusions yet.
Look how long it took to figure out that analogs were bad for you. Hell, in the early 50's it was advertised that Dr's recommended smoking Camels over any other brand.
And nowhere in any of my posts have I advocated hiding in the shadows to vape unless you are in a situation that warrants it such as a location where it is outright banned or you have been asked by a proprietor not to do so.
we were told for YEARS that smoking was good for us, that it was harmless, that it got rid of terrible things like asthma etc. Most people will assume just because you SAY its harmless, it isn't, just like analogs were touted as the great medicine, they weren't.
This is not the "50's". The advances that have been made in medical analysis is light years beyond 50 years ago. When most of the studies already conducted have been conducted by vehment anti-smoking doctors, that tells me they would not be advocating vaping if they thought there was a chance it could hurt others.
You are inferring that the current studies have not been done well and that vaping must pass the 50 year milestone before it can be deemed safe for those near a person who is vaping. That just defies common sense and logic if you read the studies and have a clue as to why smoking is harmful to others.
The chemical properties of vapor is as different than the chemical properties of tobacco smoke as car exhaust direct from the tail pipe is to air in the Swiss Alps.


wv2win - You keep coming at me like I am either against or ashamed of vaping. I am neither. I proudly vape and will likely die someday with a pv between my lips. I have talked to other smokers and non smokers about it constantly and spent countless hours answering questions people have asked.
All I am trying to say is that if someone objects to it even when presented with the evidence that is currently available they still have every right to reject that evidence. I also can't blame them if they do because there are plenty of bs, intentionally skewed, psuedo-science studies out there in many different fields to fuel their skepticism. (I AM NOT SAYING THE VAPING STUDIES FALL INTO THIS CATEGORY)
So when I encounter someone who steadfastly objects to it despite my explanations the only sensible thing to so is move on while sadly shaking my head as they climb into their gas guzzling SUV's and drive off.
I am not saying their opinion is right but rather that they have a right to their opinion the same as all of us do and that becoming belligerent does nothing to change that. If anything, it reinforces it. If we are really lucky and they encounter enough us us behaving respectfully then maybe their opinion will change over time.
Thanks everyone for the thoughtful replies. I'm just not into spending a lot of time exploring a bunch of alternate realities and that does seem to be the problem. The only solution I see is to stay here. My choice this week was dinner or Campfire coffee, London, and Managua. I'm lovin these vapes!