i love the fact that couples are giving up the stinkies together. my hubby and i gave them up together. it is so much harder if there is still a smoker in the house while you are trying to quit. doing it together this way is so supportive. it gives the couple the same goals and interests. the support from this forum has helped tremendously. you forum folks and the vendors have all been so nice and helpful. i feel wonderful about our sucess and thank ecf for helping us.