Gen X officially started in 1967. I am Gen X (1973)...my parents were hippies who got pregnant when they were 15 and 17 respectively. They got married right before I was born. Long hair, bell bottoms, pot, standing on a corner handing out hand picked wild flowers when I was 2 years old while my parents were trippin on ......yeah man! As I got older, I watched my dad turn into a drug dealing GM worker who was always trying to find a way to screw "the man" and never quite succeeding. In the end, he took a buyout from GM and invested his money into a marijuana growing venture - if only he had waited until medical marijuana was legalized in Michigan 20 years later...now his psychotic wife supports him and controls him.
My mom grew into a bitter man hater after being cheated on by him all the time (what happened to free love Mom?). Their marriage lasted 15 years surprisingly. After their divorce they both got involved with .......s. My dad just stuck with his ......., even though she tried to kill me twice and tortured my sister and I endlessly with her abuse (we got to pick who we lived with and my dad was still the cool hippie guy who brainwashed us against our uptight cold hearted mother). My mom has gone
through a string of unsatisfying relationships because she advertises that she wants a corporate sell out type of man when what she is really attracted to is the hippie grunge guy who can fix her car and the plumbing. All the men who get involved with her get so confused they either become paralyzed or they run for the hills.
I won't go into more details about those two, but I believe that the reason the baby boomers are so confused by the generations that follow them is that they never paid attention to us from the start. It was always all about them. As long as they had their pot and their paycheck, they couldn't give a ***** if the world was falling apart around them because they could always take credit for Civil Rights, ending the Vietnam War, and Roe v Wade. Even the ones who were out campaigning for Earth Day and things that were supposed to be "for the children" had kids at home, sat in front of the television watching MTV or HBO on cable.
Michael Jackson, Madonna and Freddy Krueger raised me while my parents were so absorbed in their own drama they didn't notice I was selling my dad's skunk weed to the baby boomer teachers at my high school and having my boyfriend spend the night right under their nose while they got high in the other room. Hell, I didn't even sneak him into the house - he walked right past them, said hi and everything. The rule was no boys spend the night, but the reality was they forgot he was there as soon as he was out of their sight.
Ironically, both of my parents independently "found" themselves in fundamentalist Christianity and have spent the last decade or so trying to control my sister and I, now that we are adults, so they can "save" us from hell. LOL! We lived in hell when we were kids and it wasn't Jesus who led us out of it - it was psychologists. I would have traded cable tv for a little interest and attention from my mom and dad, but oh well.
I'm 36 years old, I have 2 children (20 & 17), 4 college degrees, no job, and I still don't know what I want to be when I grow up. But I still enjoy passing out daisies on the corner. I have no real chance at good health care and now that my generation has got old enough to actually fight for it instead of just giving it lip service, the baby boomers are out in droves picketing about Hitler and death panels. God forbid they contribute one red cent to anyone else's well being but their own! But it's okay for them to bankrupt Medicare and Social Security on our backs and leave nothing behind for us. It's been happening for years, how dare we demand they stop it? It's easier to just project their own faults on to us for trying to change things. Baby Boomers stole from the generation behind them and the generation ahead of them. Thanks Mom and Dad. And you wonder why OUR kids are so crazy?