What my crazy (analog smoker) wife did yesterday.......

[EvilZoe]

Try not to give jfango too hard of a time. We can't help who we love. All we can do is buy a high pay-out life insurance policy on them and cut the break lines (kidding). I've had to deal with some craziness. She may be a victim of her own emotions (bi-polar?).

I HOPE you're kidding since "break" lines don't do anything. BRAKE lines, on the other hand....



(Yes, I'm being a turd...lol)

 

[LDS714]

Hope you guys work it out. That's too much strife for a pair of nicotine deprived individuals to deal with.

 

[jfango]

Without trust there can be no real marriage, do what you need to do to protect yourself and valuables and send her on her way, or pack up your stuff and get out before this gets really dangerous. If you believe she is that crazy (and her actions do show that) then it's time to end this relationship.
Do you want to spend the rest of your life looking over your shoulder, being afraid of what she will do next? I don't think I'd spend another day living in the same house with her unless SHE got professional help. Also the things you are saying tell me that you don't really love her either, I hope there are no kids.

I'm not so sure it is a good idea to end it now, and won't, and I do love her. I told her that I would be here for her forever, and I meant it, but there is a line that shouldn't be crossed all the same, and it might come to that. We'll see. Clearer heads will most likely prevail, and I'm going to give it some time, and I don't have any place else to go right now anyway. Life is just so silly....and funny too! I think it was Einstein who said, "The difference between stupidity and genius is that genius has its limits." Einstein was a VERY smart man, and I've always admired him and I love reading his numerous quotes.

Read more at Albert Einstein Quotes - BrainyQuote

 

[basylica]

I'm not sure about "hot", but single vaping woman here

Id consider myself a catch. Sure im no longer a young one and i have 2 kids but i own my own home, totally debt free (cept a car payment i choose to have to rebuild credit), im hitting 6 figure mark in income, and could go buy a bmw in cash if i wanted.
I can rewire a house and change a tire in 5min flat.
I wont comment on rack

But i had crazy useless guys so my tolerance of bs is nil at this point. Isnt anything i NEED from a man.

 

[patkin]

Wow! Just wow! and WOAH! That woman would wind up in that creek on top of my vape gear. She's very, very, lucky to have you if she's still on dry land.

 

[Zealous]

Wow!!! I have a bazillion thoughts going through my head as I read this & the 1 screaming at me is that I should not comment. I'm going to anyway cuz I just feel like I must.

First, I'm terribly sorry that you & your wife are clearly having some sort of issue with you switching to vaping. I'm also sorry you lost all that stuff cuz it's spendy AND it was keeping you off smokes so it sucks that it was all taken away.

HST, there is clearly something more going on between you & your wife than what's being shared here. I don't think it SHOULD be shared here either. This is an ecig forum & not a support group for relationship issues. I hate that other people here are saying things like get out of the relationship (P.S. IT'S A MARRIAGE & "GETTING OUT" ISN'T SOMETHING THAT SHOULD BE TAKEN LIGHTLY FOR THOSE WHO ARE STILL SINGLE /rant) & all this when the fact is that no one here knows what's really happening in your house. You are being terribly irresponsible, thoughtless & selfish by bringing this conversation here when it should be being brought to a counselor or at the very least a close family member so you & she can get some help working your problems out.

This conversation should not be taking place here. I can not say that strongly enough. The only thing people here can do is vilify your wife for acting in a seemingly crazy manner by throwing your stuff out. But it's not good for anyone on this forum to jump in here & talk about how crazy her behavior is when no one really knows what's going on in your house but you & your wife. Do the right thing & take it off the forum. Personally I feel really bad for your wife right now & this was a completely unfair thing to do to her.

 

[LX1X]

Id consider myself a catch. Sure im no longer a young one and i have 2 kids but i own my own home, totally debt free (cept a car payment i choose to have to rebuild credit), im hitting 6 figure mark in income, and could go buy a bmw in cash if i wanted.
I can rewire a house and change a tire in 5min flat.
I wont comment on rack

But i had crazy useless guys so my tolerance of bs is nil at this point. Isnt anything i NEED from a man.

Well. Hello there! Lol


Op. A friend from another forum would say... "dump her". That is one crazy (EDITED) move on her part.

 

[EvilZoe]

I'm no catch.

I don't really cook, I don't clean, I'm unemployed, and I'm not a young hottie.


On the other hand, I can fix your computers, set you up with awesome vaping gear, ignore you when you play your video games (I'll be doing my own geek stuff), and I won't nag you if you go out...just so long as you don't give me reason to not trust you and you trust me just the same.

Sure, you'll have to leave me space to store my electronics, tools, Spawn collection, books, etc. and you can't complain about me shopping for that stuff because it makes me feel good. I WILL have my office, workstation, and lab. Oh, and the cats stay...they're my family...lol

 

[Nightcall]

She's probably jealous of the attention you give vaping. I had a girlfriend who used to get jealous if I paid any attention to my cat.

 

[Claudia P]

Well at very least do NOT have kids and subject them to this craziness.
I'm old and have been around the block many times, experience teaches like nothing else. Even the most volatile relationship I've been in had enough respect to not mess with the other's stuff.
Honestly I find it hard to believe that you do really love her in the true sense of the word, or you would never have said some of the things you have said. I'm not saying you were wrong saying them, but true lasting love doesn't sound like that.

I think if you intend to stay in this marriage you both need to get some professional help, counseling is definitely in order.

I'm not so sure it is a good idea to end it now, and won't, and I do love her. I told her that I would be here for her forever, and I meant it, but there is a line that shouldn't be crossed all the same, and it might come to that. We'll see. Clearer heads will most likely prevail, and I'm going to give it some time, and I don't have any place else to go right now anyway. Life is just so silly....and funny too! I thnk it was Einstein who said, "The difference between stupidity and genius is that genius has its limits." Einstein was a VERY smart man, and I've always admired him and I love reading his numerous quotes.

Read more at Albert Einstein Quotes - BrainyQuote

 

[vjc0628]

Wow!!! I have a bazillion thoughts going through my head as I read this & the 1 screaming at me is that I should not comment. I'm going to anyway cuz I just feel like I must.

First, I'm terribly sorry that you & your wife are clearly having some sort of issue with you switching to vaping. I'm also sorry you lost all that stuff cuz it's spendy AND it was keeping you off smokes so it sucks that it was all taken away.

HST, there is clearly something more going on between you & your wife than what's being shared here. I don't think it SHOULD be shared here either. This is an ecig forum & not a support group for relationship issues. I hate that other people here are saying things like get out of the relationship (P.S. IT'S A MARRIAGE & "GETTING OUT" ISN'T SOMETHING THAT SHOULD BE TAKEN LIGHTLY FOR THOSE WHO ARE STILL SINGLE /rant) & all this when the fact is that no one here knows what's really happening in your house. You are being terribly irresponsible, thoughtless & selfish by bringing this conversation here when it should be being brought to a counselor or at the very least a close family member so you & she can get some help working your problems out.

This conversation should not be taking place here. I can not say that strongly enough. The only thing people here can do is vilify your wife for acting in a seemingly crazy manner by throwing your stuff out. But it's not good for anyone on this forum to jump in here & talk about how crazy her behavior is when no one really knows what's going on in your house but you & your wife. Do the right thing & take it off the forum. Personally I feel really bad for your wife right now & this was a completely unfair thing to do to her.

I agree 100%

there is no way this is not the symptom of deeper issues
that need to be resolved if there is not to be worse damage in the future

hopefully it does get resolved before there are any kids to get caught in the crossfire

and 100% this is not the right place to resolve the issue's

 

[jfango]

Wow!!! I have a bazillion thoughts going through my head as I read this & the 1 screaming at me is that I should not comment. I'm going to anyway cuz I just feel like I must.

First, I'm terribly sorry that you & your wife are clearly having some sort of issue with you switching to vaping. I'm also sorry you lost all that stuff cuz it's spendy AND it was keeping you off smokes so it sucks that it was all taken away.

HST, there is clearly something more going on between you & your wife than what's being shared here. I don't think it SHOULD be shared here either. This is an ecig forum & not a support group for relationship issues. I hate that other people here are saying things like get out of the relationship (P.S. IT'S A MARRIAGE & "GETTING OUT" ISN'T SOMETHING THAT SHOULD BE TAKEN LIGHTLY FOR THOSE WHO ARE STILL SINGLE /rant) & all this when the fact is that no one here knows what's really happening in your house. You are being terribly irresponsible, thoughtless & selfish by bringing this conversation here when it should be being brought to a counselor or at the very least a close family member so you & she can get some help working your problems out.

This conversation should not be taking place here. I can not say that strongly enough. The only thing people here can do is vilify your wife for acting in a seemingly crazy manner by throwing your stuff out. But it's not good for anyone on this forum to jump in here & talk about how crazy her behavior is when no one really knows what's going on in your house but you & your wife. Do the right thing & take it off the forum. Personally I feel really bad for your wife right now & this was a completely unfair thing to do to her.

Hey sorry but I believe it's YOU who need to take a chill pill.....just sayin...no offense...but it's not like the whole darn world is going to show up at my door to create trouble for me or my wife, and if they did, they better have a gun because they might get shot. So keep your wits about you, because you're going into territory that belongs to me.

 

[EvilZoe]

Hey sorry but I believe it's YOU who need to take a chill pill.....just sayin...no offense...but it's not like the whole darn world is going to show up at my door to create trouble for me or my wife, and if they did, they better have a gun because they might get shot. So keep your wits about you, because you're going into territory that belongs to me.

Boundary well-set.

 

[basylica]

I'm no catch.

I don't really cook, I don't clean, I'm unemployed, and I'm not a young hottie.


On the other hand, I can fix your computers, set you up with awesome vaping gear, ignore you when you play your video games (I'll be doing my own geek stuff), and I won't nag you if you go out...just so long as you don't give me reason to not trust you and you trust me just the same.

Sure, you'll have to leave me space to store my electronics, tools, Spawn collection, books, etc. and you can't complain about me shopping for that stuff because it makes me feel good. I WILL have my office, workstation, and lab. Oh, and the cats stay...they're my family...lol

Gotcha beat

Im a great cook, or so im told...
Im a network engineer/systems admin. I get paid to geek

You have me on awesome vape gear however!

 

[devauto]

She decided that my vape gear was making me go crazy and ruining my health, so she took about $200 worth of my vape gear (SVD, SS Zmax, with Protanks and batteries) while I was in the shower getting myself ready to go to work, and took them to a creek near our house, and tossed it all in.........she believes that I'd be better off to go back to analogs......
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The truth is that in the last six of the eight months since I'd quit the analogs, I've felt like a million bucks! I am of sharper mind than I think I've ever been in my entire life too.

So I took away her smokes, and now I feel kinda sick from smoking analogs because my order of 3 SVD's, 3 Protanks, and 4 batteries will take a few days to get here........and in the meantime......
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Now I sit and wonder which one of us is the dumbest of the two....not sure really....
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you just can't fix stupid, can you?
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Isn't life funny?

The only thing that would have kept me from killing her would be knowing that I would be stuck with analogs in PRISON!

 

[Zealous]

Hey sorry but I believe it's YOU who need to take a chill pill.....just sayin...no offense...but it's not like the whole darn world is going to show up at my door to create trouble for me or my wife, and if they did, they better have a gun because they might get shot. So keep your wits about you, because you're going into territory that belongs to me.

I'M GOING INTO TERRITORY THAT BELONGS TO YOU?????? You just brought your dirty laundry to the ecigarette forum and you are encouraging others to side with you on a situation they know nothing about. And now you are telling me to keep MY wits? Seriously??? You need to take a step back sir & consider what you are doing. I'm done.

 

[jfango]

I'm not here to vilify or ridicule my wife, even if it might seem that way to you, I'm just talking about what is really nothing more than a silly action by an otherwise ordinary human being, and I've already forgiven her for what she did, and wake up dude, it's not like she tried to kill me. I'm sure I've done silly things before too, and all of us have, so don't be so quick to start throwing rocks, because if you do that, then YOU are the problem, and not me, and you might get hurt with that kind of talk or action, and that's how wars start, isn't it? DUH! So YOU wake the hell up!

 

[Mark Anthony]

You should have thrown her in after them...... lolol Just kidding but wow.... that was a little extreme.

 

[patkin]

I think its time for you to go have a smoke.

 

[jfango]

I have to go now, see ya all later and have a nice day!