Those who smoke or vape where its acceptable to do so get it, they respect others, and have the respect of others.
Those who smoke or vape where its prohibited, in crowds, around families, children, schools, medical facilities, work place, or any other place where there asked no to but do so in defiance because they want to are seen as the problem with vaping or smoking.
Yesterday, I was in 3 different public places, none of which I've previously vaped in before. In none of them did I ask before I started vaping. In 2 of the 3, at no point did I bother to ask.
In all of them, I vaped with respect to others around me. I find this easy to do. In none of the places did I have anyone approach me to ask me to stop. I fully get that some may have chosen not to approach me, due to fear of confrontation, and instead may write to the same senators I write to (all of whom are currently Republican) and say they don't like this. Point of this paragraph though is that I did vape in these places with respect to others around me.
One of these places (the first I visited) was a bowling alley and I vaped each time behind the lanes or where people sit when they are actively bowling. I didn't vape there, but did vape all of 8 feet behind that space, out of respect to bowlers in what ended up being a crowded bowling alley. Oh, that just so happens to have 2 very popular bars in it, and which are arguably much bigger draw for the establishment than the bowling. I did get one dirty look from a patron, and was the only dirty look I got over the course of my 8 hours of being out. This dirty look came from a girl that I would estimate was around 10 years old. Yep, I chose to vape in a place, indoors, where children may be present and in this case, many were present. But I made sure I was in a space that would not be possible to 'blow it directly into someone's face.' Therefore, vaping with respect. I recognize that what I chose to do is questionable / debatable, and yet here on a vaping forum I'm up for the debate (always) and in with less experienced folks who have very little clue on what vaping / vapor entails, the questionable aspect would be rather easy for me to respond to, thus a very short debate, I would reckon.
The people who smoke or vape where it may, or many not be acceptable, either get what it means to vape with respect, or they don't. If they don't, they will likely be approached. As I have thus far never been approached, and have been vaping indoors many times, I am left to conclude that what will prevent me from vaping in each of these places say 1 to 10 years from now, is a smear campaign (much like what happened with SHS) where the 10 year old will be told to spot those 'ecig thingies' and stay far away from them because they could make you die, that day! Perhaps it'll be something else that isn't resembling fear mongering that causes the same places to disallow me to vape in these places and enforces it very rigidly, but thus far into my vaping and political awareness, I am convinced that it will be between 98% and 100% likely due to a smear campaign, and not related to science, except superficially.
The second place I vaped was a restaurant. Vaped indoors. Restaurant was dead, but I was with group of 10 and out of respect, I just went to restroom, took a puff and went on my merry way. This type of indoor vaping, regardless of establishment's rules, strikes me as a no-brainer and really don't see how anyone could debate this but am always up for that one if anyone reading this thinks there's some angle I haven't considered.
Third place I vaped was very crowded bar / club where music is pumped so high you are sure your ears will be ringing for a couple days afterward. No kids will ever be allowed in this place (legally) for a long while, so not a kids issue on this one. I noticed when sitting down and looking around that there appears to be zero vapers here, but because the music is so loud and because this is essentially a meet market, then I'm very certain no one will even notice me vaping. And I did. Always kinda wondering if it is allowed, but also knowing if I actually get confronted by some bouncer type, I'll do my best to explain it, and if answer is a firm no, that's okay, I WILL be vaping in your restrooms, guaranteed. Yet, being the dual user that I am, I went out for a smoke (my first in last 7 days) and when I came back in, chose to ask a bouncer type if vaping is allowed, and found out that even while this place is heavily crowded with people, that yes, yes it is allowed.
But give that place some time, and just enough ANTZ smears, and pay no attention to the fact that minors will never be present in this location where ear drums are likely being harmed nightly, but just remember that "for the children" carries with it such enormous weight, that this ought to be reason alone why I would never ever vape in that crowded of a public place, and is why society was (one day in the future) good to ban it in such locations. In Jan. 2015, it was perfectly acceptable to vape in there, but who knows what sort of smear campaigns will be in place in say Jan. of 2018 in that same venue. Then I'll perhaps be told of course you shouldn't vape in here. Do you see how crowded this place is? Do you not understand how deadly SHV is? Do you not visit ECF where even fellow vapers are convinced that you should never ever vape indoors unless you are given explicit permission to do so? What the heck is wrong with you?
Won't anyone think of the respectful vaper?
(Btw, this is the short version of what I wanted to say about my vaping in public last night.)