'Wife' School - Would You Send Your Daughter? - ParentDish
You guys have to check this out! I am all for good manners, my childern were taught Please and Thank you, you are welcome, excuse me and table manners. They heard say "yes sir and no ma'am: to your betters and elders and to open doors and pull out chairs for elders and ladies..
A lot of the Sir and ma'am stuff was due to us being Military, but the rest was old fashioned good manners.
I don't think my kids and grandkids, who spent a lot of their early years with us, ever needed a course..But I meet kids everyday who could use it! Not just girl or kids for that matter.
I do want to say if you (ladies) ever went to dinner with us, please hold on to your chair..my younger grandson will pull it out and shove you and your chair right under the table! I am trying..but he does not get the word 'guide" NOT slide.
You also need to get a wiggle on while he is holding the door for you..he has told me (when he was 4) Hurry up grandma! This the door is heavy!! Making the people around us laugh.
The older grandson (at 5) once asked why he HAD to carry my bags if I never carried him around?
He overheard my daughter joking with a friend about my refusal to carry my own bags when I had a child (mine or hers) with me. She told her friend, that I said " I carried you for 9 months, you can carry the bags for me!" My grandson overheard and misunderstood.
You guys have to check this out! I am all for good manners, my childern were taught Please and Thank you, you are welcome, excuse me and table manners. They heard say "yes sir and no ma'am: to your betters and elders and to open doors and pull out chairs for elders and ladies..
A lot of the Sir and ma'am stuff was due to us being Military, but the rest was old fashioned good manners.
I don't think my kids and grandkids, who spent a lot of their early years with us, ever needed a course..But I meet kids everyday who could use it! Not just girl or kids for that matter.
I do want to say if you (ladies) ever went to dinner with us, please hold on to your chair..my younger grandson will pull it out and shove you and your chair right under the table! I am trying..but he does not get the word 'guide" NOT slide.
You also need to get a wiggle on while he is holding the door for you..he has told me (when he was 4) Hurry up grandma! This the door is heavy!! Making the people around us laugh.
The older grandson (at 5) once asked why he HAD to carry my bags if I never carried him around?
He overheard my daughter joking with a friend about my refusal to carry my own bags when I had a child (mine or hers) with me. She told her friend, that I said " I carried you for 9 months, you can carry the bags for me!" My grandson overheard and misunderstood.