Patricia, THAT'S IT! THE PROBLEM. I think these people were all raised in the 70's when their parents failed to realized that we really need to wack our kids when they act up, and right now! Consequences always should be memorable. Now we call them Progressive Liberals.
You need a time out on that one. My best friend in the world was raising his kids in the 70's. His son, who was the product of his first marriage, learned how to play the game early. Dad used to threaten him with corporal punishment but never hit him, because you couldn't. Kid got the bright idea to tell them at school that his dad hit him. Dad was under scrutiny from then on. Epilog- at 38 now the son is finally coming around after fighting the ...... addiction for the better part of his life. Still can't drive a car, but appears to finally be "getting it".
This country has just out "lawed" itself. The post before this one was about seat belts. I don't wear mine, just because the government insists on it. However, I do wear a helmet when I ride because the government lets me make the decision.