I'm soon to be 47 years old. I've been successfully vaping for over 2 years now. I've ordered a vast majority of my stuff online but every once in awhile, I have to resort to running out to one of my local shops to get something that is an immediate need. (Ran out of cotton or my next juice delivery hasn't arrived.... etc.) Every time I go in these shops, I feel like the creepy old dude that shouldn't be there. They're filled with a bunch of late teen/early 20's kids with shaggy mop tops, gauged ears, pierced everything and skinny jeans. This is both the customers and the employees. I feel like everyone is staring at me like, "what's this old fart doing in here?"
I almost never see people my age vaping out in public unless it's an eGo stick or some other similar device. No one has mods or tanks except for the young kids. Then there's me with my little IPV D2 and Smok TFV4 mini. Meanwhile, the youngsters are all sucking on 200W mods with massive quad coil drippers and puffing away on such tasty sounding flavors like Dying Unicorn Blood and Sasquatch Poop.
I've been vaping off and on practically since vaping first became publicly available. I finally found stuff that worked for me and got off analogs completely. Now I feel like some old dinosaur trying to fit into some scen e I'm not a part of just to get some cotton or a roll of wire.
So seriously, when did this become a "scene" thing?
I'm soon to be 47 years old. I've been successfully vaping for over 2 years now. I've ordered a vast majority of my stuff online but every once in awhile, I have to resort to running out to one of my local shops to get something that is an immediate need. (Ran out of cotton or my next juice delivery hasn't arrived.... etc.) Every time I go in these shops, I feel like the creepy old dude that shouldn't be there. They're filled with a bunch of late teen/early 20's kids with shaggy mop tops, gauged ears, pierced everything and skinny jeans. This is both the customers and the employees. I feel like everyone is staring at me like, "what's this old fart doing in here?"
I almost never see people my age vaping out in public unless it's an eGo stick or some other similar device. No one has mods or tanks except for the young kids. Then there's me with my little IPV D2 and Smok TFV4 mini. Meanwhile, the youngsters are all sucking on 200W mods with massive quad coil drippers and puffing away on such tasty sounding flavors like Dying Unicorn Blood and Sasquatch Poop.
I've been vaping off and on practically since vaping first became publicly available. I finally found stuff that worked for me and got off analogs completely. Now I feel like some old dinosaur trying to fit into some scene I'm not a part of just to get some cotton or a roll of wire.
So seriously, when did this become a "scene" thing?
I think I like "tweener". I'm gonna use that!!Maybe you are just stuck being a "tweener", too old for the young'uns and not old enough to be an "admired oddity". I got at least a couple decades on you and have found a great vape shop (just up I29 for you) that everybody, especially the employees treat me great. I even finally met and got a high five from the owner really nice young lady) last visit. I love it when I walk in on my monthly visit and am greeted with "Hey, Dan. How's it going? Here, you just gotta try this." And they hand me some monstrosity with some new flavor to try. I'll be danged that they even got me hooked on a flavor with grape in it, something I never would have even tried if I had known. As my wife refers to it, they are her geriatric babysitter while she shops in the city.
I think you must have skimmed over a few parts because it sounds like you're missing a few key things.After reading thru the entire thread...
My not fully getting the desire to contribute to local businesses. Strikes me as kind of a hipster thing to do. It's probably noble, and well intentioned, but if that same business is not providing service that matches what I, as a consumer, desire in terms of customer relations, I can't see what is so noble about supporting local business at that point. I'd like to have that explained to me.
If it literally were their (the kids) clubhouse, would you still wish to go there in some (vain) attempt at supporting the local business, that is their clubhouse?
Likely everything that is sold there is sold online, and so resolution to whatever is OP's personal concern, is easily known/overcome. Well, everything but the noble intention of supporting local businesses. Perhaps local businesses could have an online shop?
The younger generation doing social things that are vastly different than the older generation strikes me as (absolutely) normal for as long as I've been walking on this planet. When I was 15 to 22, and congregating with peers of that age, it would've been weird to throw an 'old person' (anyone over 30) into that situation. 'We' probably would've alienated them and not thought too much about it. Me, personally, I've almost always had great respect for older generation, but not so much when in a pack of my peers. Again, strikes me as normal to be like this, but kinda sucks. Adultism sucks way more IMO, and the former strikes me as karma playing out because of the persistence of the latter.
The thing that concerns me about this is the permanence of it all.Hey now. I have tattoos and piercings, and I am 27. I don't do it to rebel or be unique, and I don't do it to fit in. I do it because I like it, aesthetically. Not all tattoos and piercings are aesthetically pleasing to me, so I get ones I feel are attractive. Believe it nor not, there are people who feel it is attractive. People have different tastes. And I like to look in the mirror and like how I look... which includes tattoos and piercings that I find tasteful.
I agree with everything you said, except for one thing...When considering their appearance and their strange behavior, we should really just consider ourselves lucky they didn't follow our lead regarding our clothing and hairstyles from the 70s and 80s... perhaps instead of telling them to get off our lawn.
I think you must have skimmed over a few parts because it sounds like you're missing a few key things.
You're right! Pretty much everything sold in the B&M stores CAN be bought online! However, there are times when a situation may arise that you have an immediate need for something. You can't wait or don't want to be bothered with it being shipped to you from somewhere else. Every so often getting what you need actually necessitates logging off the computer for an hour or so and leaving your house. (Unless you can get that awesome same day drone delivery service from Amazon.)
Why would you waste you time and gas to go to a vape shop, to buy wire & cotton, not only that but how often ?
How is it a bother to have something shipped to your door ?
Small business are shutting down because of Amazon, it's 2016 not 1995 ......................
The thing that concerns me about this is the permanence of it all.
A person doing these things is perhaps committing themselves to a lifetime of constraints.
I am NOT arguing whether or not that should be the reality we live in.
I'm just pointing it out, because it is, or it may be.
Of course, reality can change.
But in the end, such things don't seem wise to me because they put limits on you.
But living in a free country is always a good thing.
EDIT: I have always wanted a/some tattoos...
EDIT: But my wife is not on board
EDIT: But if I got any, they would be hidden from the business world
EDIT: Because that's the world I live in and make my money in
EDIT: But as I said, reality can and does often change
Why would you waste you time and gas to go to a vape shop, to buy wire & cotton, not only that but how often ?
How is it a bother to have something shipped to your door ?
Small business are shutting down because of Amazon, it's 2016 not 1995 ......................
Why are you stuck on the wire and cotton? Those were only examples I used not my actual reason for being there.
If you must know, I needed to replace a broken tank and you can't exactly pick those up at Walmart. I didn't want to wait for it to be shipped from an online vendor because I would have been stuck using cartomizers on eGo batteries until it got here. Hence, I went to the place where one would be most readily available- The local B&M vape shop! I've since ordered a couple of spare tanks online but I needed a tank at that particular time, not 2 or 3 days later.
People run out of stuff. Stuff gets broken or lost. Somebody just knocked over your last bottle of juice and it soaked into the shag carpeting. Poop happens and sometimes the issue needs to be addressed in the present not in 2 or 3 days. And it might be something you're able to find elsewhere or you might not. How many places outside of vape shops sell vape juice? I'm not wasting my time running all over town to find out.
So, despite the fact that I loathe going into these places, sometimes there is a need to walk across their threshold, get what you need and get out.
Except for the flagrant theft of house juices.Maybe vaping will keep the crime rate down.
Choochoogranny the VapestarHere's me and Dimi early 2014. "I think they're crazy..."
He does a great deal in advocacy and keeps pretty busy traveling for our cause.