#9 I moved out of state after I graduated college, met my wife, got married and moved back to the state he lives in. He met my wife, fell in love and now says that she is his favorite daughter-in-law ( I have two older half brothers from him that are married). He has changed a lot and we have grown closer. My wife has been a great part of that. She is a buffer for us because we are so similar but different that we .... heads a lot. But that is part of it. You can't pick your family, you can only hope they love and accept you. It took a while but he does now and I am able to learn about my heritage and where I come from because we have a relationship now.