Well there is a little wiggle room on length . Some batteries in each size specification will very in length due to the protective ones having a small circuit board under the wrapper(usually on the negative end) that provides the protection. 2-3 millimeter longer usually is ok due to the leeway of the spring .If your box mod calls for 14500's I think it best to stay with those .
If your mod is unregulated (it probably is unregulated) it is probably not a good idea to use IMR type batteries. It is very important not to over-discharge lithium batteries . Protected batteries ,when functioning properly do not allow over discharge.
To help with some of your confusion , look at your box mod as a 900 mAh ego with a different form factor .The ego is similiar,just a different dress on ,lol. Instead of putting the whole unit on the charger, you just replace the battery and keep on vaping. No need to have multiple egos,just need spare batteries.
You can probably tell when you are getting to the end of the battery charge as the vapor starts getting noticeably weaker. Put another battery in at that time.
Again I don't recommend IMR batteries in your box mod . I'm concerned ,due your newness to mods and current lack of thorough understanding of lithium battery differences stick with protected and for now, stick to the size recommended for your particular mod.
Get to know your mod. Read what you can about lithium batteries. Learn what mAh is,and how resistance plus voltage affect vape output.
Ask questions and learn . Don't feel overwhelmed. We all start at the beginning of whatever our interest is. After you have lived with and enjoyed your box mod for awhile ,you may realize there are more features that interest you. Longer battery life, regulated output,variable voltage . variable wattage. There is plenty of time for all that . Again,enjoy your mod. Get to know it . Ask any questions you need to.Post them here or feel free to PM me . I'll help however I can. Most of all....vape.