about women

[imeothanasis]

I dont think that anyone knows what women hides in their mind. Even the women dont know sometimes. Is this real? I am 42 and I think that I know almost anything for them.

If anyone has a good and simple explanation for those creatures he can help many people here including me to understand

 

[HzG8rGrl]

Even a woman cannot explain this to you or herself. Sorry- you are ..... out of luck.

 

[ggero]

xmm...thats a difficult question to answer ....Me and my wife are in relationship 17 years and I cant say that I know ALL her buttons ! ..I think that we can say that "a woman`s soul is an abyss"

 

[DaMulta]

Is it not about these things?

 

[just-cass]

its like we always say "if you have to ask then you obviously dont have a clue" heehee

i think men are just wired differently with different objectives...

 

[imeothanasis]

Even a woman cannot explain this to you or herself. Sorry- you are ..... out of luck.

you see? I knew it!!! That means that I am not lucky but at least I know the truth

 

[HzG8rGrl]

I can tell you what helps you get to the sweet spot........
Honesty-no matter how bad it may hurt.
Listening to each other-no matter how bad it may hurt.
Talking openly-no matter how bad it may hurt.
And after you have done all of the above and you are now
A liar
Your ears are bleeding
Your tongue has been ripped out
Just tell her how beautiful she is and you love her no matter what.

 

[imeothanasis]

ggero, exactly as you said friend

just-cass, I dont have a clue, thats the bad reality. Or a good reality? I feel safe in my brain. Simple and easy

 

[Stormynights]

I dont think that anyone knows what women hides in their mind. Even the women dont know sometimes. Is this real? I am 42 and I think that I know almost anything for them.

If anyone has a good and simple explanation for those creatures he can help many people here including me to understand

A woman needs to be needed, loved, and appreciated. Give a woman all of these things and you will have all the things a man needs. It is really very simple. When things get out of balance you will have misery. She will be miserable and so will you.

 

[just-cass]

ggero, exactly as you said friend

just-cass, I dont have a clue, thats the bad reality. Or a good reality? I feel safe in my brain. Simple and easy

neither do i imeo(shhh dont tell anyone!!!)

 

[HzG8rGrl]

This is what you have to find out about yourself....
What is it that YOU want from a female?
There are different types of people out there.
Some are looking for partners in life. Some are looking for someone to take care of them. Some are looking for someone to take charge. Some are just looking.
You first must find out what it is that you want from a female and find a female with that quality. Yet you must also be ready to accept some of the baggage that comes with her. At our age, we all have a past that we must surpass. That is not easy and you have to be a part of the cleansing of such past. If you refuse then you will never know her for who she truely is.
I could go on and on but, you really do not want to hear me ramble such non-sense.

 

[imeothanasis]

Hz, you see what I mean? I asked something with 2 words and you answered me with 2 paragraphs

Simplicity is your weak point but I can admit that your mind is very complicated

I forgot to say that if you say the truth to your woman then you will have nagging for the rest of your life, is this true?????????


Stormy I like what you said sweety but you need something more and I cant find it. Maybe you just need more and more???

 

[Stormynights]

Hz, you see what I mean? I asked something with 2 words and you answered me with 2 paragraphs

Simplicity is your weak point but I can admit that your mind is very complicated

I forgot to say that if you say the truth to your woman then you will have nagging for the rest of your life, is this true?????????


Stormy I like what you said sweety but you need something more and I cant find it. Maybe you just need more and more???

I stand by what I said. If a woman doesn't feel needed she can't feel wanted. I am not talking about being used. That is a bad thing. A woman has to feel loved. Saying I love you once a year don't cut it. You have to make her feel loved so she knows it without any doubt. She has to know that you appreciate her. If not she will feel like a used door mat.

 

[HzG8rGrl]

Read, Personality types, by Richard Riso.
Find your self and then you will know what personality type compliments you.


The Enneagram, by Helen Palmer.


I forgot to say that if you say the truth to your woman then you will have nagging for the rest of your life, is this true?????????

Not if she truely loves you and can move forward in life.

 

[dgriego]

I have been married for 25 years this year. I am not an expert but I think one thing I have learned is this

Women want to be loved, to feel loved.
Men want to be respected, to feel that they have respect.

This does not mean that women do not also need respect and other things nor does it mean that men do not need love which they do.

If a man makes a woman feel loved she can endure many short comings.
If a women makes a man feel respected he can endure many short comings.

Just my opinion, again I am no expert.

 

[Lisaf01]

I think you are viewing her as her gender and not as a unique and complex individual just like yourself..................

 

[jliu]

Imeo ... my brother ... just say I"m sorry.

You will never understand woman.

 

[vt100]

I am no help to you on these questions, but I'm really good at misunderstanding women and a veritable expert at ending relationships (2 marriages down! ) If you need any help there let me know!

 

[MHR7331]

Imeo ... my brother ... just say I"m sorry.

You will never understand woman.

Truer words were never spoken; just give up now... lol

 

[Stormynights]

Truer words were never spoken; just give up now... lol

Do you think women understand men? Maybe a little. 8-o Men are just little boys in bigger bodies. They do have responsibilities. That is the main difference.